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How do I turn back to Allah when I remain tense all the time?

I always remain tense and the only thing that comes from my mind is hatred of this world. Every time I look in the mirror and say to myself that I’m a good person, I want to help people, but still I don’t want to be a hero.

Her husband beat her till she lost her baby

I am sharing this story behalf of my dearest best friend I have known her 19 years now and my friend is in such a difficult situation and needs help and advice. I told her about this site but she is so upset and depressed that she said she doesn’t have that energy to sit and write about her unexpected accidents which she faced by her self.

Is my ex-husband’s sister’s divorce fulfillment of my revenge?

My exhusband gave his first divorce to17 years old girl after 3 years for not being able to produce a child and then married me without telling me the truth about his first marriage and divorce. when i got miscarriage medically he divorced me just after two days of my abortion leaving me alone for my whole life time. he knew i would never be able to remarry in my life. Its so easy for anyone to say that i should move on…. i never wanted divorce intentionally

I feel like I’ve lost everything and I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know where to start, but I just need some advice. What to do if your parent’s won’t accept the guy that you want to marry because of different race, culture? But we’re both muslims, shouldn’t that be the most important thing? To be fair my mum did talk to him, but it still doesn’t work. I’m tired of praying it will work out, I left everything in Allah’s hands but ya Allah if he’s not the one for me, why is it impossible to stop thinking of him?

Complicated case of child abuse

I’m a 15 year old girl living in the UK and as far as I can rememeber, I have always suffered from abuse. I’ve suffered from 3 types of abuse: verbal, physical and emotional abuse from both of my parents and verbal and emotional abuse from kids at school my entire life. All of this has since last year, made me depressed, suicidal, a bit rebellious, lazy and inactive and cut off from daily life.

Will I get my husband and unborn baby back in the eternal life?

I got divorce just after my first miscarriage at 3rd month. I never remarried again and now I have become too old. My only question is that will I get my exhusband in eternal life if I wished so?

I turn my hand into a gun, aim it to my head and then pretend to shoot myself

18/Female. Living in the USA. And as you can tell by my question above; I hate my life. I have family problems; I want to escape the world. I believe I’m ugly. And when ever I pass by a mirror out of habit I look at it tell myself “You’re ugly. Why are you alive? You should die.” And then I randomly turn my hand into a gun and aim it to my head and then pretend to shoot myself.

I Don’t Want to Live

I’m becoming weak, my faith in God is decreasing every day. I love God, but why does he make us live this life? What is so great about this lifee?!!! Everytime something good comes in life, something happens to mess everything up! I just want to scream! I want to cry all the timee. Everything good comes to an enddd, nothing is forever. If we’re going to die eventually why can’t we die now! Everyone is so sad with their lives!

Always felt like a bad person, cheated on boyfriend and being blackmailed.

I am writing because all my life I have felt deep down like a bad person. My youngest memories as a very very small child were of lying awake at night (EVERY night) crying until I fell asleep out of fear of death and that God (at that time I had only really been educated about Christianity and even so, only of a little of that religion), would judge me as evil.

Family is falling apart after my sister had an affair with my stepbrother

My mother had cheated on my father three years ago, and a year after that he married his highschool sweetheart who also became a muslim before he even asked her in marriage..