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Should I tell my fiance that I’m not a virgin

I had a affair 4 years back and i lost my virginity! Now ‘m engaged and wondering whether I should say about my past…

Should I marry a man who refuses to share his past with me?

Hi I am a girl of 23 years old. I live in UAE. My family is very simple yet modern. I love a man who is 33 of age. I am in love with him since last 4 years.

When our relationship started I didn’t know that he was married before. I made up my entire mind in all aspect to marry him I used to ask him to marry him but he asked me to wait but I wasn’t ever inquisitive because I’m myself studying now.

My fiancee disclosed her past to me. How should I deal with this?

A couple of days back, my fiancee to-be confessed to me that she had slept (had sex) with her ex-boyfriend..

I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later

I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.

Am I a virgin?

I have always loved to sit in woman’s laps, I used to do so a lot with her, and she never minded that of course. Also, on the bed, I used to sleep very close to her, and e.g. when she was asleep, I would put my legs on her legs, as if I was lying in her lap and thus enjoy myself I was 11-13 in this age then. I did not know fully about sex back then, and did not touch any of her private parts or anything, but simply repeated that childhood obsession of lying in her lap while she was asleep. I have tried to overcome that habit as well. I am at a point of life, where one comes to realize that there is nothing of True Vale besides one’s relationship to his Creator.

My brother doesn’t want to marry his fiance but he is doing so for our parent’s happiness.

He trust me with his whole life. He has told me about his past. Like how he used to sell drugs and have sex with other woman. He has also told me he was in love with his ex girlfriend. How she treated him different than any other girl he even meet. He still loves her. But didn’t marry her because it was a long distance even though they lived in the same city. He lies to my parents to get him engaged. He doesn’t want to marry the girl he is engaged too. He doesn’t want to hurt my parents and break up the Engagement. And he feels if he does and goes back with his ex girlfriend. She might take him back. How could I help My brother?

Should I tell her about my past before marriage?

I never had sex before marriage, a few years ago I got divorced and since have had sex with two woman, both of whom were non-Muslim. Until now it didn’t bother me but now I am seeing a Muslim girl that I want to marry and I wish I had never been so stupid and that I would have thought about this before I did it. Should I tell her?