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Emotional abuse, contemplation of suicide

Is moving out the right option because I am saving my life? My family won’t change and won’t accept me- I already know that. Please brothers and sisters, advise me if I am doing the right thing, because I will marry this girl insh’Allah. If I could, I would right now. But the abuse my family is giving me is such a difficult thing to cope with, I don’t know how much more I can take.

Abusive mother-in-law, husband says he hates me. Please tell me what I can do.

He says Jannah lies under mother’s feet. I agree with him, but does that mean injustices can be done with his wife? Now he says he hates me and asked me to go away from his life.

My mother-in-law making my life hell!

She expects me to not go to school, not go to my family, not go out with my husband… To wake up, make food for her, clean for her and have babies so that she has something to do with her day!

My Fiance Refuses to Accept My Past Marriage.

I thought I was doing the right thing by telling him the truth of my past. I was married only once, was always pure before that marriage to my ex-husband, and I was always very religious and good. I never did fornication or bad things. Now I am a Muslimah and I feel as if I’m being punished for a mistake I clearly didn’t know I was making.

Considering suicide… Is it the only way out of this mess?

Suicide is the only solution for me. I know it’s haram… but I can’t find any other solution.

Tricked into marriage to an unstable wife: Is divorce the only way out?

My wife cries over small matters, creates drama and histrionics, spends money like anything, and regularly offers suicide as a solution to problems. Sometimes I feel I’m dealing with a ten year old.

After 6 years in a relationship she won’t marry me

She’s stated that things are really messed for her in her head and surroundings and she needs to figure things out, that she wants to be alone, she wants me to carry on with life, she feels like I come in the way of her decisions and that she can’t risk it anymore because its changing her as a person.

Is it permissible for a muslim woman to move out of the house because of abuse?

I can not live in this house anymore, I am constantly being put down by my mother. On a daily basis it is constant bickering from her, yelling and screaming.

I have no freedom, no rights

I have no freedom at home… no rights. They lie about me going to college when I’m really stuck at home.

My husband has no affections for me

I write with a heavy heart. My husband has no affections for me. I am sad as I do not understand. I have tried over the years to talk to him, but he says to shut up and he does not want to hear this.