Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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I love a non-Muslim man

He has brought me closer to my deen. But he is not a Muslim… he is a Christian who accepts all religions. Only he can give me the happiness and the respect that no one else can.

Family overhearing sex with wife

The home is small… two rooms only. Is it halal for him to be in this situation?

Writing to the man who my mum wants me to marry

I do not have any particular feelings for him… I will marry wherever my parents will ask me to. My mum says I should mail him once in a while and in this way keep in touch. Once in a month I mail him, he sometimes replies and is very decent, but now I have started feeling it’s wrong to be sending mails like this.

My mother wants me to divorce my wife

My mother is asking me to give talaq to my wife for the sake of God. I don’t know what to do.

My mother got me married without my consent

She agreed when I didn’t give my consent. He can’t go back as his visa will expire. I don’t want to stay in Pakistan and the way he is has made me hate him. My dad is not speaking to me. I no longer want to be in this marriage.

Want to get married but have family responsibilities

I fell in love with a guy it was a pure feeling from the beginning. He supported me through all my ups and downs. We wanted to marry each other from the beginning. It was a long distance relationship mainly because he studied away from home..we called each other and hardly met… Now as he has finished his studies and wants to marry me as soon as possible… I can’t be so mean to ignore the needs of my siblings and desert them by marrying…and also I cant wait myself for such along time without marrying..

Getting crushed between love and family, need serious help

I was really good friends with one of my cousin and soon we fell in love with each other , we are best friends and my family found out and they are not approving to this relationship …My whole life is shattering, even though I am only 18 but I feel like I will never be happy again, I want to make my family happy and Allah happy too.

My parents are not doing anything to get me married!

I am 21, and just finishing off my degree, and I am starting to think about the next steps in my life… I have told my mother that i would like to get married after I have graduated but she just says we will think about that when you’ve finished, I think that they have placed too much importance on education. I don’t know what to do. How should I approach this situation?

I’m gay but society won’t accept me, what should I do?

I know being gay is bad, but I read my five times namaz and read the Quran daily. I’m scared if my family find out I might get kicked out.

I want to convert to Islam, but my family won’t allow it

My family wont allow me to convert to Islam. They are Hindus and dont mind me being atheist but dont want me to be a Muslim. I know that I am supposed to obey my parents but if they come between me and Islam, then it is right to go to Islam