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I feel no attraction for my fiance

Assalamu alaykum,

I have a problem which has been hammering in my head for a while yet I tried many times to erase it from my thoughts as I fear that it might cause me to commit a sin. Not long ago I got engaged to a practicing Muslim brother which I met at university.

My guilt and anxiety are not leaving me alone

I have wronged a lot in my past life and I can not stop being depressed and guilty about it. At the time I was 16 I was in a haraam relationship with a boy a year older then me. I had thought that I was in love and he promised to marry me. I ended up losing my virginity to him and had sex with him whenever he wanted because I felt loved and wanted. I do take full responsibility and I have no one to blame but my self nevertheless I will not try to disguise myself as the victim in this matter.

My fiancé is using nude photos to blackmail me

I made a mistake and committed zinaa with my fiance, and at the time we took a few nude photos together. Now I have stopped and repented, but he is using the photos to blackmail me to marry him right away, against my family’s wishes.

Is my Pakistani boyfriend lying to me, is he already married back home?

I have a muslim boyfriend, and just recently a girl e-mailed me from Pakistan telling me that I am a home wrecker, and that she is my boyfriends fiance. I demanded that my boyfriend tell me whats going on, but he denies being engaged, and he denies even knowing this girl. She sent me pictures of my boyfriend with a lei around his neck, and said that this means that he was engaged.

Can My Fiance Hook up with Another Woman?

My fiancé wants to hook up with a middle aged woman while he waits for me to move to the other side of the country which he wants me to do.

Fiancé Wants to be a Lesbian

I’m trying to help my fiance, I love her so much, and I don’t like it when she hates herself. She has these disturbing sexual thoughts about her female best friend… and I don’t judge her on her thoughts, but I’m scared and worried… I mean, I trust her with all my heart, but I don’t want her to be filled with temptation.