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My husband excludes me from decisions

He says I are being disrespectful, he is my husband and I should do what he wants. It’s been only six months since we got married, and I got just a few months to finish my studies. If he is acting this way now that am away, what will happen if I am home?

He used me and my family cut me off

He used me and got me pregnant then dumped me, and my family cut me off. I am all alone.

I constantly fight with my dad.

What can I do to make this all go away? How can I make my dad understand that I need my personal space, and his support?

My husband hates me and is cruel to me

I can’t turn to his parents as they have blamed me in the past and say as a woman it’s my responsibility to basically to keep quiet and put up with whatever he does.

Seeking forgiveness after being very abusive to husband

As a result I become abusive to him, fight with him, but last when had a fight I went too far.

Living with abusive mother for 25 years

As-Salamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatuallahu Wa Barakatuh,  For the past 25 years I’ve been living in a household that was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. My mother -May Allah SWT reward her- has been through a lot, but with that being said she has done a lot to me that damaged me pretty bad. I was always […]

Fast Marriage and Faster Problems

There is nothing with me now… becoz of me, my parents, relatives are ashamed and deeply hurt. Shall I leave her and find new life?

Marriage argument, now he’s ignoring me

After our conversation I sent him a message that he doesn’t have a right to shout at me and disrespect me like that just because I asked him that. It’s been now two weeks since that incident, and he hasn’t called or texted me ever since. Please, I beg you to give me advice on this matter.

Arguments getting worse.

He keeps losing his temper very easily. My parents will never allow me to come back to them. I don’t want to be classed as a failure, and I want this relationship to work. We have seen beautiful dreams together and have plans. But I’ve noticed that the more I listen to him, the more aggressive he gets. The only way to shut him up is by screaming, breaking things or threatening suicide. I have vowed never to take that route though because I know my kids will suffer, but things are bad enough for a divorce.

I have anger problems from reciting Surah Tauba

I don’t want to suicide as it is haram, I just want to die. Even if I take revenge or kill someone, it will not be a solution because now I have become a topic of laughter. Please don’t tell me it’s haram and all, I know all that. Please let me know some dua or way to die!