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Father uses physical violence, so we reported him to law enforcement.

If we defend our mother, our father gets angry and beats us, but if we defend our father, our mother gets angry. What to do?

My husband excludes me from decisions

He says I are being disrespectful, he is my husband and I should do what he wants. It’s been only six months since we got married, and I got just a few months to finish my studies. If he is acting this way now that am away, what will happen if I am home?

He used me and my family cut me off

He used me and got me pregnant then dumped me, and my family cut me off. I am all alone.

I constantly fight with my dad.

What can I do to make this all go away? How can I make my dad understand that I need my personal space, and his support?

My husband hates me and is cruel to me

I can’t turn to his parents as they have blamed me in the past and say as a woman it’s my responsibility to basically to keep quiet and put up with whatever he does.

Seeking forgiveness after being very abusive to husband

As a result I become abusive to him, fight with him, but last when had a fight I went too far.

Living with abusive mother for 25 years

As-Salamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatuallahu Wa Barakatuh,  For the past 25 years I’ve been living in a household that was emotionally, mentally, and physically abusive. My mother -May Allah SWT reward her- has been through a lot, but with that being said she has done a lot to me that damaged me pretty bad. I was always […]

Fast Marriage and Faster Problems

There is nothing with me now… becoz of me, my parents, relatives are ashamed and deeply hurt. Shall I leave her and find new life?

Marriage argument, now he’s ignoring me

After our conversation I sent him a message that he doesn’t have a right to shout at me and disrespect me like that just because I asked him that. It’s been now two weeks since that incident, and he hasn’t called or texted me ever since. Please, I beg you to give me advice on this matter.

Arguments getting worse.

He keeps losing his temper very easily. My parents will never allow me to come back to them. I don’t want to be classed as a failure, and I want this relationship to work. We have seen beautiful dreams together and have plans. But I’ve noticed that the more I listen to him, the more aggressive he gets. The only way to shut him up is by screaming, breaking things or threatening suicide. I have vowed never to take that route though because I know my kids will suffer, but things are bad enough for a divorce.