Tag Archive for ‘financial problems’

Numerous trials, I have been praying for death and feel suicidal.
My life is a total disaster. I have been praying ALLAH for a reconciliation with my ex-husband because I still love him, without success. Now, I am praying for death, and someone to take care of my baby. I am so tired of all these difficulties after all my trials and hardwork.

Is Civil Marriage Mandatory in U.S.?
I think he would be willing to convert, and that it would not just be for me. Here is the problem, if we got a civil marriage, both our benefits would be cut, and we could not live here any more. In fact one couple among our neighbors divorced so they could move here! As long as he takes Shahada sincerely, and we have the correct number of witnesses and a proper contract, is it absolutely necessary to have in addition to nikah, a civil marriage?

My husband uses drugs, is violent and I am scared for my own life and the life of my children. Please help.
e stays out every night; ignores me and comes back home like he isn’t doing anything wrong. We fight whenever we talk; I am trying so much to keep this marriage intact but I can’t take it any more from him. I am scared from this violent environment; my kids will be affected; I feel like he is using and abusing me. He is bullying me in many ways.

Dua to make my husband financially strong so that he quit playing lotto.
My husband is a very nice person he never even smoke in his life but I don’t know how he got involved in plying lotto and put in his mind that he will win and he is spending more money then he afford on lotto. So, I am really worried I know we are not financially stable so I want to know dua to make him financially strong so he forget about lotto.

Husband accused me of adultery; I don’t know what to do?
I am living with parents and rented out the house. Now he says just admit what you did, but I didn’t do anything with anyone. I love my husband very much but I can’t get divorced I just don’t think my heart can handle it. All I have ever wanted is love and respect and to be a mother & that hasn’t happened. what should I do?

I need help as I don’t have any family around who can help me.
Can you help and tell me what should I do. Remember , he does not talk to me as if I made a mistake by finding out . The other thing, if I leave him , my youngest son will suffer financially as I do not have any savings and I will have to start from scratch.

We text and call each other; I just want to know if it’s right or wrong to do so before marriage?
Prior to my graduation; I met a Muslim girl 3 years ago who is born and raised Muslim, from the same ethnicity/background as mine. Long story short; we both exchanged text massages, calls and even met a couple times (public/private) Istaqfurullah. Its something I regret now. have decided to marry this girl but I am financially not ready. I am aware of the talks and text we are doing is haram so in that case I would like to do atleast a nikah but at this point what I am thinking is that we are in Ramadan. Should I keep talking to her or exchange text massages or wait till nikkah and cut contact with her.

What should I do about my marriage as my in-laws have turned my husband against me?
I am a 24 year old female. I am the eldest in my family with a younger sister. I was proposed by a guy; in fact, in Nikkah to him some 5 years back. They will speak all kind of lies and will do anything and everything for money. He stopped speaking to me last year and did speak to me again by the end of January. I know that Almighty will definitely punish them for ruining my life but by that time my life would be in another state. My parents insist me in getting married as I have a sister and me staying like this might ruin her life. Any suggestions?

My mum betrayed us and my husband is cursing her
In 2006 my husband and me couldn´t afford to pay the morgage and decided to sell the house to her and my little brother because he was working.

When will I get a suitable job?
Please, advice me, how will I get a suitable job around the world because I have two children and still not well settled? I have five years experience in a clinical line as a medical practicioner at Kolkata and now I have left my medical practice