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Tag Archive for ‘Forced Marriage’

I regret my decision to quell my parents’ insecurities and marry

My parents pressured me into marrying a man from America, but I am just not feeling it. He is boring and I see more of his flaws with every day that passes.

Having dark thoughts since forced engagement

It started when my mother agreed to a proposal on my behalf without my consent. I wasn’t raised to expect such things: to expect that my wishes could be overlooked.

My mother is upset because I won’t marry my cousin

My mother tried to force me to marry an Afghan female cousin back home, but isn’t that against the teachings of Islam on more than one count?

My parents will be upset if I don’t consider this unsuitable proposal

I checked his social media and found that he follows several indecent adult pages. This turned me off, even though my parents are trying to blackmail me into marrying him.

Parents blackmailing me into marrying someone other than the girl I love

I was in a relationship with a girl for years and now want to marry her, but my parents are dead set on me marrying the daughter of a Maulana. They are saying that “from day one, we have given you everything you wanted.”

She says her marriage to me was forced and she doesn’t want it

She is saying that this Nikkah is not valid because it was forced. But I’m confused because she said she wanted to try. Now she wants to get out of it using “forced marriage hadith.”

Getting pressured to marry someone I hate, I want to die

I recently turned 18. I am being pressured to marry a first cousin who I hate because he bullied me all through my childhood. I want to die now because I feel like I would be eventually forced to say yes.

I don’t want to marry this man…please help!

I want to marry another person who has taken care of me for over 10 years now.

My marriage was forced and I committed a big sin

I commited zina with a man other than my husband, from whom I am getting a divorce. Should I tell the truth to my parents and in court?

Forced nikah and now I feel suicidal

To me I’d rather die than live with him.  No amount of time will heal that. I don’t want to be raped by him and I think to end this will help us both move on with our lives quicker.