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My parents will be upset if I don’t consider this unsuitable proposal

I checked his social media and found that he follows several indecent adult pages. This turned me off, even though my parents are trying to blackmail me into marrying him.

Parents blackmailing me into marrying someone other than the girl I love

I was in a relationship with a girl for years and now want to marry her, but my parents are dead set on me marrying the daughter of a Maulana. They are saying that “from day one, we have given you everything you wanted.”

She says her marriage to me was forced and she doesn’t want it

She is saying that this Nikkah is not valid because it was forced. But I’m confused because she said she wanted to try. Now she wants to get out of it using “forced marriage hadith.”

Getting pressured to marry someone I hate, I want to die

I recently turned 18. I am being pressured to marry a first cousin who I hate because he bullied me all through my childhood. I want to die now because I feel like I would be eventually forced to say yes.

I don’t want to marry this man…please help!

I want to marry another person who has taken care of me for over 10 years now.

My marriage was forced and I committed a big sin

I commited zina with a man other than my husband, from whom I am getting a divorce. Should I tell the truth to my parents and in court?

Forced nikah and now I feel suicidal

To me I’d rather die than live with him.  No amount of time will heal that. I don’t want to be raped by him and I think to end this will help us both move on with our lives quicker.

Parents are trying to force me away from the girl I want

I have been researching about solutions for all this, and I found that it’s my right, as well as my duty, to make the right decision for myself…but my parents say that they don’t care about Qur’an and Hadith. They actually blame me that I am hiding behind all this to serve my agenda.

I don’t want my arranged husband

I am going to turn 20 this year and by the end of this year is my rukhsati. I am married since 2016 but due to his education rukhsati was postponed. I never wanted to marry him, and I love someone else.

Why is he letting his family tell him who to marry?

Why is it so big deal to arrange a marriage for their child? Why they cannot let their child choose for his own happiness? Why they are doing this to him/us?