Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Relationship with a non-Muslim man for 5 years but he questions Islam.

I have always done everything “right” in life… He doesn’t think the same as my other Muslim male friends. When I think of him and Islam, I flinch. I know I can’t change some of his views, but I know he will be a Muslim someday.

Did I offend her?

I miss hanging out with her and want to have that special relationship with her like before.

How should I cope from this pain?

I really wanted to marry her and i wanted to get credit from Allah for forgiving her. I didnt look at her weaknesses.. I accept her the way she is.. I dont care.. I myself had weakness.. I didnt realize a thing that i did.

He is a Hindu and is ready to convert and I want to marry him

He is a Hindu and wants to marry me v r very much attached to each other. Someone said that if i marry him my life will become dark. This was seen in isthikhara should i believe this and leave him? But its not possible for us to leave each other.

Should we remain friends and keep talking or shall I break it off?

I should also mention that I have asked quite a few people about this, and most have said that I should stop talking to her completely, however I find myself contrary to that, because like I have said, I know my limits, and also this could damage any future/possibility of a future relationship by acting indifferently towards her.

Is getting to know someone for the purpose of marriage allowed?

If someone comes your way and you feel like they could make a good future spouse for yourself and you get to know them through text messages and calls, etc. Is this a bad thing?

Everyone Hates Me, I Want Allah To Love Me

I ran away from home and lived with a man. He abused me and tried to kill me. Nowadays, I live with my family. They still HATE me and have not forgiven me. I have no wish to keep going..

Engagement in Islam

What basically is engagement? after the engagement do the male and female become mahram for each other? can they male and female have verbal communication?

I consider my female cousin as my real sister, so we talk on the phone, and text each other, but we don’t have any intention to marry.

Can I treat my female cousin like my own sister, and talk, chat, text with her? We have no intention to marry.