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Question about marriage and conversion to Islam to become a good Muslim husband and father.
Her name is Iman and we both are Muslim and would like to stay that way but her father is Christian he is my boyfriend still at this present time and we are staying with him. IF we decide to get married and he DECIDES to convert to Islam then would it be a sin to have a big wedding? Should I just get the imam to come around to my house on a Thursday night. I have asked questions and most people tell me that i should just get the Imam to come around and marry us on a Thursday night. If everything works out for me and him what other steps should he follow to become a Muslim as my parents are not that religious?
I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.
My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.
We want to spend our lives together but I am not sure if I should trust him due to cultural, religious and age differences.
I have met and fallen in love with a Saudi student who is considerably younger than me (18years). He is from one of the most liberal cities in KSA and has told me that his family will eventually accept me. I can’t help but wonder if this is possible due to the age and cultural difference, and the fact that his student visa will be expiring in another year or so. I also worry that he may be married already and hiding it from me, so that he has someone to be with while he is in the states. Is there a way to find out if he is married and is there any hope for this relationship?
Is it right to marry a non-Muslim girl in Ramadan?
My name is Rafeeq and I am from India. I am in love with a non-Muslim (Hindu) girl. This girl is ready to convert to Islam and change her name for me, which would be a very good thing for my parents to agree for this marriage. Is it possible to marry as per Muslim tradition (Nikah) during the month of Ramzan? I am aware that one should remain holy in this month and we are ready to follow the tradition. However, we just want to get married so that we become husband and wife legally and then nobody could harm us. After marriage, we will strictly remain holy until Ramdan is over.
I lost my virginity and I want to repent.
I am 16 years old and recently (about 2 weeks ago) I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (who is also Muslim). I never planned on losing my virginity before marriage. The moment we had intercourse I was scared and regretted it. I told him to stop then I don’t know why, but I started to cry. I just don’t know what to do at this stage, even though I am guilty for having intercourse before marriage I did it again anyway afterwards.
Should I tell her about my past before marriage?
I never had sex before marriage, a few years ago I got divorced and since have had sex with two woman, both of whom were non-Muslim. Until now it didn’t bother me but now I am seeing a Muslim girl that I want to marry and I wish I had never been so stupid and that I would have thought about this before I did it. Should I tell her?
Should I leave him as he won’t marry me or just stay for the sake of our children?
I have been in a relationship for 5yrs with a Pakistani man and I have 2 children with him and my other children all think he is their dad. He wont marry me. I new him for 18months before we got together when my daughter was just born then I had my son and he still wanted relationship with me. I do everything myself I take nothing from him he gives me nothing in return. Also I didnt find out till after a few years he has a wife and has kids with her; now I feel very trapped.
Should he cut off ties with his childhood hurtful friends for me?
Unfortunately, Foogle and his friends were suspicious that Frodo had a love interest and asked him if he was talking to me. He denied it every time. Eventually they found out in July that I was speaking to Frodo through hacking his MSN chats (with me) and keylogging his Facebook login and email. When my sister pretended to be me, his friend swore at me and said “don’t go around posting my address you b****.” They started saying rubbish like “What the f*** do you know about the Quran” and talking rudely about circumcision etc my brother said they said much more WORSE things and he has been very concerned about the type of person Frodo could be if his friends could behave like this.
Divorced American woman in love with Saudi student.
I am an American woman studying finance at a university in the USA. One of my classmates at school watched me for an entire year. At the very end of the school year he asked me to go out with him and confessed a crush on me. We share a similar sense of humor and outlook on life – if you can believe it. I am absolutely falling in love with this man. However, I have a lot of concerns because we are from completely opposite cultures. He is a Muslim from Saudi Arabia. I knew nothing about Islam or Ramadan before I met him, and I am honestly extremely impressed with his faith.
We both are married but we still love each other and been intimate together. Please help
Until one day, I decided to marry the girl I just met, thinking that the other one is so far from me and long distance relationship most of the time don’t work. Then she couldn’t believe that I got married; she cried I caused her pain which she carried out for years. Even if she really loves me, she doesn’t like to be my second wife. And sometimes she have the guts to ask for a divorce. Until one day, I received a divorce agreement from her family, asking me to sign the papers. Yesterday, she got married and I told her, just pretend that you have your monthly period to avoid having intercourse and tell him that ramadan is also coming. The main purpose is to avoid confusion later on if who’s the father (if she will able to conceive).
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