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My life is messed up; please help me to make the right decision.

He loves me too I know that; the problem with me is that I love him a lot and cannot think about anyone else other than but I am ignoring him and making dua to Allah to help me. What should I do? I have problems in my life I cannot go and marry just someone else and also I have tried to but I cannot help thinking about him and cry and praying all the time.

Will Allah (swt) forgive me for my past sins and what should I do to get married to the girl I want?

Is there any specific thing to do so that Allah swt forgives the sins I have committed before. I and my girl asked sorry to my ex-girl many times she told that she accepted my sorry but not my gal’s sorry she won’t forgive her. In that case wat does she do now to escape from Allah’s punishment?

Is Re-Nikah permissible with the same person without any prior divorce?

For my parents, their priority is right now my elder sister and they are worried too for many things. I don’t think they realize what I am going through and I don’t blame them either. What should I be doing? Can you please suggest something where I can save ourselves from sins, save this relationship and save everything else that is falling apart?

Divorced and want to marry another guy but don’t know what my family and ex-husband are going to say?

What should I do Islamically because I once made tauba to never contact him and to return to my husband with pure intentions to live. But now I am divorced; what should I do? Can I marry that guy? What kind of sin that guy will have because I proposed him; he wasn’t the one who asked me to leave my husband and marry him.

My fiance cheated on me; should i marry him?

I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we got engaged at the end of last year. I found out 5/6 months ago that he had cheated on me with a non-Muslim who then wouldn’t leave him alone and statrted playing games with him. My mum had agreed for me to marry him initially however now disagrees with this. She has said on many occasions she has had signs even in her sleep that this guy is not right for me and wants me to just move on from him. His parents have also from day 1 tried picking at things and constantly trying to lecture me on what to do and I feel that this will happen more if I was to get married to him. I am so confused as I don’t know what to do?

I am confused as he says; he loves me yet doesn’t want to dissolve his marriage.

I was introduced to a boy as we were both in a stage of looking for marriage. Whilst I got to know him we both developed feelings for each other and wanting to marry one another. So, when my other half found out he was fuming and said I could not be trusted. He then looked at another proposal his parents arranged for him and told me he was still in love with me. Thereafter, our relationship was going downhill and after a month of our mending of relationship I heard he is marrying another girl! He calls me and tells me he loves me and made a hasty decision out of confusion!

I want a divorce from my wife and want to marry this other girl who I have been in relationship with.

I am in a situation which is very troubling. Eight years ago I got married to my mother’s identical twin sister’s daughter from Pakistan. For all these years I have put on an act so my mother remains happy. We are not able to have children & last year I became exhausted of living a lie. I met a girl with a beautiful heart and good intentions with whom I and she instantly had a spark and connection with. Unfortunately, she became pregnant with my twin babies & this is when I had to tell her I was still married. I left her with no option but to abort.

I cheated on my husband but didn’t tell him until a year later

I was in a relationship with a boy at the age of 17 and it went along for about 3 years until we decided to get married without telling our parents. The first 6 months of our relationship I had a problem of not being fully committed to him and I cheated by kissing 5 other guys during that time.

My husband cheated on me but I don’t know how to deal with this situation. What are my options?

A week ago I walked through the doors of my home to find my husband in bed with another woman. Apparently she had no idea that he was married, and I know this because I saw the messages that he sent to her. He said he has made Tawbah but I am unsure of his sincerity. He seems to be genuine, but this is not the first incident that we have had; this is just the first time that he had gotten caught in the act. I asked for his reasoning for being defensive but he didn’t reply. All he keeps saying is; I am sorry. I am so confused as to what to do.

Am I in an haram relationship?

I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.