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Will Allah permit a man to reject hoor al ayn?

Please do not cite Hadiths about the virility and sexual capabilities of men in Jannah, as I have read them all and have experienced a loss of iman. It has been five years since I came across this topic, and have been extremely hurt by it. It sounds stupid, i know, but throughout my life, I depended and turned to Allah s.w.t. I never knew I would have an amazing, loving husband as I do now, but I always knew that human beings are unfaithful..

Living with In Laws

I am recently married +/- 6 months now. I am living with my inlaws. My husband and I does everything with my in-laws even go on every holiday together, go out every weekend with them. I have spoken to my husband that we need our alone time together and we need to make our own decisions about stuff like going on holidays together.

Istikhara dream

I did istikhara about me and my x husband, he betrayed me he was having affair with another married woman and she got a baby from my husband. Her husband left her then my husband did nikah with her aswell without telling me, then when i found out i told him i dont want him in the house then we got seprate and husband started living with that woman but stil he was coming to see us. We have 2 kids, a boy 5yr old and a girl 1yr old.

My husband divorced me now wants to reconciliate.

My husband divorced me about nine months ago after much pressure from his family, though i never had problems with him or his family. He now wants a reconciliation and his family say they are sorry. My family are skeptical about the reconciliation because they are not sure if my ex-inlaws can be taken for their word.

My husband is not anymore the man I married

We met at a masjid and masha ALLAH he was on the deen, always studying Islam, Quran and hadiths and we use to have long conversations about Islam because we loved to talk about Islam. He was energetic and so pious masha ALLAH, he would lower his gaze automatically when other women come. We also had the same plans in life. I fell in love with him because of his deen, great character, his love for ALLAH and Islam. And not too long after I prayed Istikhara (I wanted to marry him). He ask me to marry him, I was so happy and I accepted and I made sure he knew that all that I want from him is to bring strong Islamic value to the table, he agreed.

My husband wants to divorce me because I won’t leave my sister

I’m suffering from Mental illness and Eating disorder. Since im marrid with him his problem is my sis who lives few miles away. She doesn’t follow Islam. But when i was in need of help she was there for me who stopped her work when i was in the hospital.

Is my marriage valid?

I have been a Muslim for 4 years. My first marriage failed. I was proposed to again by a man but we had a nikah which I think fulfils Islamic Shariah ….

Will I ever find a man who will love me and my child?

I’ve been divorced and basically..I feel ever so lonely. I have a daughter and my family alhamdulillah and without them, I dont want to imagine life and thumma alhamdulillah that I have them..and its certainly not that I want my daughters father back in my life, no way. But yet I have this loneliness…sometimes im just dying to have that someone special listen and love me. I feel such temptations to have someone of the opposite gender

My husband had an affair after 10 years of marriage, should I forgive him?

I’ve been married for 10 years and my husband cheated on me. I thought i had the perfect marriage and i have a beautiful 5 year old, i struggle to forgive him, everyday is like a test. I’ve lost my loving family who care about me, as they want me to leave him. I was pregnant and lost my baby recently, please help me to find an answer…

Moving forward after leaving abusive husband

How can I tell the program I’m in that my location has been compromised by me after all their assistance? How could I have done this to my children?