Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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female interested in male, instead of other way around

I’m 16 and I’m interested in this man who is always in the masjid praying, reading Quran, etc. Other than that I don’t know him, and only talk to him when I’m giving salaams etc. He seems like a really nice person, and I would like to know if he is interested in me, too. I […]

My friend’s husband had a past relationship

But since these 6 years my friend constantly imagines that him being with that girl and hurts. She cries always and is always depressed about his past. Is she sinning by doing this? What should my friend do to accept his present and understand him?

Husband or Father – Whose wishes should I follow?

I have consummated my marriage yet I am living away from my husband to keep my parents happy. My husband thinks I will join him in 4 months and my family will go to Pakistan and marry me off respectfully. I have not told him that my father is still ‘thinking’ and will take a year to think.

Marriage in conflict and leading to divorce. I need to make a decision…

He would use abusive language and insult me… started taking drugs, smoking and drinking. He left his job. He has threatened me of doing wrong with me and punish me. But he doesn’t want divorce…

Abusive mother-in-law, husband says he hates me. Please tell me what I can do.

He says Jannah lies under mother’s feet. I agree with him, but does that mean injustices can be done with his wife? Now he says he hates me and asked me to go away from his life.

My in-laws are making my life hell and my husband isn’t supporting me

I feel that my husband wants me to be like his mother, in every way… Every time I mention the problems with my inlaws, it’s divorce for me. My husband has said that to me numerous times and then says it’s ok we’re still married…

My family falling apart..help

I lied to my husband. It is only because of my newborn son that he is keeping me with him. Is there anything I can read to make my husband happy?

I rushed to get married; now I realize that we have nothing in common except deen

I’m too old to find someone new, I’m too much of an introvert to find someone new, I won’t find anyone who likes me like he does, divorce is disliked in Islam. Meanwhile I just can’t see myself married to him in the future, I don’t understand what we’re going to have in common in the future when we don’t have anything now. I feel like a hurried into the marriage and that I now regret it.

Family overhearing sex with wife

The home is small… two rooms only. Is it halal for him to be in this situation?

My mother got me married without my consent

She agreed when I didn’t give my consent. He can’t go back as his visa will expire. I don’t want to stay in Pakistan and the way he is has made me hate him. My dad is not speaking to me. I no longer want to be in this marriage.