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Boyfriend threatens to expose our relationship to my parents; ruin my life and career.

Within one month of knowing each other, we got together as courting couple. It was my first time. It was him who wanted, and I was reluctant at the start, but followed him. Between me and him, we had already started to talk about settling down next year. He likes to threaten me, saying that he will meet my parents and blurt out everything about what we have done. e also said that he will ruin my career and will create havoc at my workplace. I feel like, all these are happening because I didn’t take care of myself well; I caused shame to my parents I did what they forbid us to do.

A lot of drama: adultery, incest, lesbianism.

I was still a child, no more than 3 or 4 years old and I can remember my parents arguing. I remember my dad telling my mom he has some work to do, and he would take me with him to his mistress house and would leave me in the sitting room whilst he ‘does his work’…

Been intimate with my girlfriend but her family refused me as Istikhaarah is negative

My situation is very complicating.I am a Guy and i have beeen into this girl since last 3 years.. she has been my girlfriend since then and we have been going out steadIly. I am the only guy who she has ever spoken to and the only guy who has ever touch her. we had intimate relation…

We had sex, can we get married?

I am 22 years old & am doing job I have a girl friend which is 20 years I love my girl friend since last 7 years I cant live without her for a while she too loves me the same..

He doesn´t want to marry me, but wants to date me.

I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2yrs,but when Ispoke about marriage, he said he has never decided & now he says we will never be happy & then we broke up….

Can I keep him as my boyfriend if we are not doing haraam

I am at the University and since 2 years a friend and I have fallen in love with each other.
We have planned to get married in 5 years because at present we are still studiyng, the guy does not have a job and our parents will object for a marriage at this stage. This means our status is that of a boyfriend and girlfriend.

His parents are refusing to consent to our marriage

I met a man in August 2009 and we started talking on the phone as he had seen me with a friend and he was interested to get to know me better. We talked on the phone for about a month and then decided to meet face to face and have dinner at a restaurant. This became a weekly thing as well as numerous daily phone calls to each other as well. After 3 months of the same routine, I decided to tell my parents about him.

Should I disobey my parents and marry her?

I want to marry this girl but my parents are not agreeing with any of it. I have tried to talk to them, they do not even want to listen to me. Over the years my mother and father always said you must marry a turkish girl for the sake of our family bonds/traditions etc,…

How do I get rid of these thoughts?

Basically I get feelings that I have no control over. My parents had decided when I was very young that I would get married to my first cousin and as far as I know this is official although no engagement has been officially done.

Transman marry transwoman, please advice.

I was born female and transexual also known as transgender. Rise as a muslim in Islamic country, for sure someone must learn about Syariah Law, including me..