Islamic marriage advice and family advice

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Marriage Certificate – is this Fair?

Should I sign this marriage contract? It seems to infringe a right that is mine, and also maybe it shows a lack of trust…

Valid Islamic marriage

If an adult boy and an adult girl say ‘qubool hai’ in front of 2 sane witnesses without any Quazi, meher or wali, then is this nikah valid? Please say confirm an answer according to islam. -Taeba

how do muslims marry a non-muslim?

I just told her that we muslims are allowed to marry christians, so she must have to perform the marriage the way of our islam- the way of a muslim- so that she can be my wife and I can be her husband. It’s just for me to make sure that she is my wife, and I would follow her way of marriage so that she can be sure that I am her husband, and she agreed with it.

I’m so confused about my husband’s intentions, should I seek Khula?

My husband agreed to paid the mahr/dowry as soon as we would get home at the time of our nikah but he refused to paid when we got home excusing his financial position that our nikah still valid as the condition isn’t fulfilled?

My husband wants the mahr back, but he owes me the same amount!

I am a female who lives in the United States. I got married to a gentleman last year on March 2011. After few months, my husband was not taking care of me financially, he was very stubborn and was creating a lot of havoc in the house, which was very hard for me and my kids from previous relationship.

I feel “brainwashed” by my wife, I am hurt and fallen apart.

I married her because I loved her and the fact everybody thought or what she showed was she was a very caring person, I still love my wife very much, despite all the things she’s done to me, she is very ignorant, arrogant, very high tempered, says stuff to hurt ones feelings and she definitely has a hard heart, it is all about her, no one else in this world, she doesn´t respect her dad yet she is always at his place…

Do I have to pay Mahr if my wife was unfaithful?

My brother was married in the Summer of 2008 and the deferred mahr was set at the time of Nikah. His marriage was filed Islamically and civilly as well. Less than a month into the marriage, we learned his wife was unfaithful …

He accused me of cheating him and now I can’t move on.

I am having a problem in forgetting my past and moving on with my future. i need your help. I deeply loved my ex. After he proposed he changed a lot he started suspecting me.I tolerated it and explained to him that am not the the type he thinks of. I the 1st place am an orphan i live with my sister am in 29yrs i got a lot of proposals but nothing worked out.So was worried about my life. A girl’s life is not complete without a mahar…

My husband is a good man, but has no interest in Deen

At the time I got married to him he said he doesn’t drink and he was smoking but he gave up. After I moved to Australia he started again. He doesn’t drink all the time but occasionally at office parties and entertaining their non Muslim cousins at home.
It’s written in out marriage certificate that he is giving Sri Lankan Rupees 50000 as mahar but he never gave. How important is that?

My parents will not consent to us marrying because they say she is poor

I am a sunni muslim who is deeply in love with a chaste and pious muslim woman. I am established person. My parents aren’t agreeing to marry me with her as they say that those people are poor and they didn’t respect us by giving best foods when we went to there home. Also that they won’t be able to give Jahez and they won’t be able to support to financially.