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Under pressure not to marry him

Everyone in my khandan(family) calls me with bad names and has finished contact with me. And for no reason everyone’s being stubborn.

My mother got a negative isteqara for me but I didn’t

There is nothing negative against the guy except for the isteqara dreams. My mother is pretty adamant because going for this guy is going against Allah’s will and nothing good can ever come out of it.

Our parents broke our engagement – what can I do to marry her?

It was not my intention – I love her very much. I tried to fix this problem but they never give a chance to me. She said her family did istakhara again and it come out negative.

Should I still hope, or not?

Recently I came to know that if istakhara comes out negative, then you cannot hope or pray for that person. I’m very confused now. I don’t know if I should ask Allah for this, or should I keep quiet? I’m not asking for haram. I’m asking Allah to make it halal and beautiful for us, and make us pious. Is this wrong?

Negative Istikhaara For Marriage.

Her family had no option and agreed for our marriage with the condition that they will do istakhara… it was NEGATIVE. They went to some consultant who said “The girl and boy name does not match either”.

Istakhara came out negative but we still want to marry each other.

I wanna marry this guy but my mom did a istakhara by aalim and istakhara came out negative and I told the guy istakhara came out negative. I’m so confuse because he said if we still marry something gonna bad happen in our feature but we both r still wanna get marry but we don’t know what we should do please help me.

I had negative Istikhara, my uncle positive, any ideas?

I have done istikhara for my marriage and got a negative reply in my dream. but one of my uncle did it for me and said nothing is wrong. I don´t know what to believe. I don´t feel like accepting…