Tag Archive for ‘no intimacy’

Stuck in a loveless marriage but love my husband who wants to leave me
Please help me what should I do. What can I do to make him love me? I used to dress up all the time but every time I did dress up and put make up on he used to tell me what are you doing. And again he would make me feel cheap and rejected.

Tired of an unhappy marriage
My parents had arranged my marriage to my wife. Right from day 1 we have never loved each other… it has come to such a stage in my life that we don’t share the same bed and havent had normal relations for a good part of the last 7 years.

I can’t love my husband as he lied to me about his medical condition but I don’t want divorce either
I don’t believe in divorce, I don’t wanna give up on my marriage this soon without giving it a chance, but at the same time I am scared of falling into sin by not obeying him. He adores me, like totally in love with me, I feel guilty I do not feel the same, and I am scared Allah will punish me. I am also scared that Talaq is something bad.

Please Help Our Family
I am Muslim woman married to the same man for over 20 years. I am very sorry for the pseudonym, but I am not ready to reveal myself unless I take a final step which would require your assistance. My husband is getting a copy of this email, but I kept his email private as well.

Stuck in a loveless marriage, not had relations for four years
My husband and I have been married 9 years and have 2 kids. We have not had intercourse in 4 years as he has developed a physical condition but he refuses to see a doctor or get help…

My husband sells alcohol, what should I do?
My husband is doing a business which involves selling alcohol, and he has been doing it for around 15 years. His friends drink, and he does not pray. How can I explain this to my children?

Husband is not interested in sex
I was engaged for 5 years and now its been 2 years we got married. Before marriage my hubby used to love me alot and we were even involved in sexual acts which I always regret. Since we’ve got married, he changed alot now. He seems soo much busy that he dont give me time, always stressed out because of work pressure, even our sex life is not at all going good, he only come to me once in 1 and half or 2 months.

My wife will not be intimate with me or practice Islam.
I am in very difficult position. I have been married for 3 years, and for the past 2.5 years my wife refuses to have sexual contact. She cares alot for me but not for any sexual need. Another thing is that she is Muslim but not practice any Islam.

My wife refuse to be intimate with me.
It’s been over 2 months now and every time i ask my wife to make love when shes watching tv or listening to radio or doing her night makeup if I mention my need to her she quickly gets in bed and pretends shes tired or she sleepy.

What should wife do if husband has no sexual relations with her for a long time?
What if a husband does not have sex with his wife for a long time? What should the wife do?