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Is someone doing sihr to keep us apart and not to marry each other? How can we get rid of it?

The man that I love is being forced to marry another woman due to religious views. He has tried explaining to his father about me yet his father won’t allow our marriage. The man I love, says he loves me but theres nothing he can do to stop the engagement. Today, I was informed that someone was doing work to keep him away from me; sihr/magic came into mind. How can one get rid of sihr?

I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.

My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.

I want to marry him but my mother refuses because he is from a different tribe. How can I convince her?

I have been looking for the right man for many years. Now, I met him who has the personality and qualities I desire. I am a true Muslim. He is very devoute Muslim. Proposing marriage is so difficult because we are from different tribes. He wants to get married in a halal way, but my mom disapproved him because of his tribe. I want to be married to him because I love him. I don’t want to disrespect my mother because I love her to death but how can I make her understand this good Muslim guy, who prays five times a day and knows the religion better than me. What is the best way to make her understand and tell her stop being judgmental without disrespecting her?

Is it right to marry a non-Muslim girl in Ramadan?

My name is Rafeeq and I am from India. I am in love with a non-Muslim (Hindu) girl. This girl is ready to convert to Islam and change her name for me, which would be a very good thing for my parents to agree for this marriage. Is it possible to marry as per Muslim tradition (Nikah) during the month of Ramzan? I am aware that one should remain holy in this month and we are ready to follow the tradition. However, we just want to get married so that we become husband and wife legally and then nobody could harm us. After marriage, we will strictly remain holy until Ramdan is over.

Should I continue praying for the man I love to marry me or should I move on?

I wanted to marry a man from a different background and school of thought to my own; due to his past and cultural differences my family rejected him. When my father eventually came round he decided to do istikarah and informed me that he was no longer willing to marry me because of my father and small differences we had in the past. I’m in a bit of a limbo because on one hand I should accept his decision and move on but on the other I love him so and can’t move on he’s such a beautiful person mashallah. I sometimes don’t know whether I am right or wrong? Should I accept Allah’s decree and move on and accept the past is over or should I pray for our marriage?

Marriage cancelled on wedding day after father changed his mind

My father on numerous ocassions gave me his permission to marry. We set up the wedding date for July 2, 2011. On the day of my wedding my father told me that he no longer gave me permission to get married..

Her mother wants a doctor for her.

Then our friendship became stronger and we fell in love . We have met only once after 8 months she met me for the first time. Mashallah we are totally pure. Her mom came to know about me that she loves me.

My father cheats on my mother and he is addicted to pornography as well

My father has been unfaithful to my mother for a number of times. Every time he did it, he always asked for forgiveness and promised to never do it again. My brother made me promise not to disclose this to our mother as he was worried that our family would fall apart.

My parents rejected good proposals, but making me marry someone I don’t like

I am the only daughter, my other sibling being one elder brother only. I am writing this because I feel really helpless. My parents had always kept an exceptional amount of focus on me, even as a child..

My brother is going to run away due to abusive behaviour of my father; please help

My father has been very emotionally abusive towards my brother. He is blamed for anything and everything, for example the TV not working, the university not responding to his application, and the weather not turning out as the forecast said it would. A few times, my brother threatened to run away when he was angry, and he would have if my mother didn’t stop him. My mother was able to get my brother to wait until morning before leaving, and he did, and today he keeps trying to run away. I’m afraid that he won’t listen to my mother anymore.