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The boy I love lost his virginity to someone else

Salaam. I’ve just joined this site and I was wondering if I could get any advice. I’m 17 years old and my best friend who is a male is a 2 years older than me. We have a good friendship – no physical contact. We both wish to marry INSHALLAH in the coming years when we are of suitable age. I’ve known him for 1 1/2 years, and we mean a lot to each other.

Should I tell to my fiance about my past?

I am 23 years old. I live in New Zealand and I am studying at university. When I was at school I had boyfriend and we knew each other for five years. I lost my virginity to him…

Should I marry a man who refuses to share his past with me?

Hi I am a girl of 23 years old. I live in UAE. My family is very simple yet modern. I love a man who is 33 of age. I am in love with him since last 4 years.

When our relationship started I didn’t know that he was married before. I made up my entire mind in all aspect to marry him I used to ask him to marry him but he asked me to wait but I wasn’t ever inquisitive because I’m myself studying now.

Can I marry a girl who has a past?

I am muslim Pakistani and have been seeing a girl of similar background for 6 months. We would like to get married but my family are against it because this girl has had relationships in the past and also experimented with alcohol, although she has stopped.

I haven’t told him the whole truth about my past

I am in a great trouble of feeling guilty. I want to do “tobah”for all the mistakes i have done in past.actually i was in relationship with a boy 2 yrs before..

My fiancee disclosed her past to me. How should I deal with this?

A couple of days back, my fiancee to-be confessed to me that she had slept (had sex) with her ex-boyfriend..

Am I being insecure about her past or should I avoid her?

I am currently in talks with a girl about marriage inshaAllah. The problem is the girl wasn’t a practicing Muslim before and has let slip of numerous pre marital partners beforehand..

My husband has changed after finding out about a previous relationship

Since I married 2 years ago, I have had problems totally committing myself to my husband because of a previous haraam relationship I had with a guy. I have since cut ties with the guy and repented. I read the quran regularly, I have been fasting and praying for forgivness from almighty Allah…

She had sex before marriage and told her husband after 8 years

A Single Muslim woman regularly had sex with a christian man, she did not tell her husband about this till they were Married 7 or 8 years. When he asked her why she would do this she answered her body needed it.

My husband cheated on me, should I forgive him?

I recently got married in February to my boyfriend of two years. I have always known that boyfriends are harram but I did so anyway. It is a sin I live with and try to repent for as much as I can…