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I met a beautiful girl while already engaged, so I prayed Istikhara

While engaged to a girl that I dated, I met another woman, beautiful in both looks and deeds. I was confused what to do so I prayed Istikhara, had a dream, and am wondering what it means.

Difficulty in getting married!

I am in a confused state and I really wanna marry that guy.

High sexual drive and fear

I still have a high sexual drive and no matter how hard I try I can’t stop myself from having sexual fantasies about my exes.

Bad past catching up to me

I feel sad because I come from a bad background and I feel he deserves better than me…

Guilty for my past sins

I know that if I do tell my husband the truth, he will ask for a divorce and this breaks my heart.

My sins are making me depressed

I really need to write and let my problems out and I hope you guys don’t judge me. Please don’t judge me.

Friends with benefits…

We dated for 5 years. In those years he slept with 2 girls. Now he just want to be friends more of a friends with benefit.

Is our generation becoming more open-minded about sex and dating?

I’m a non-Muslim guy, in a relationship with a Muslim girl – I’ve met her mom, she knows and approves. We are not the only ones doing this; A lot of young people are dating and exploring their body/sexual feelings.

Wife confessed to her premarital relationships when asked to swear on Allah’s name.

today I asked her by taking the name of Allah and the Azaan was also going on, then she confessed that once a boy kissed her forcefully, but after that she neither talked with him nor she was in contact with him and again when I asked her about did U both had sex or more than a kiss ?

Giving up hope of marriage because real Muslimahs don’t exist.

I feel like killing myself when I even think of the possibility that other men would have seen my wife naked or touched her inappropriately, let alone zina. I will feel like a fool and cuckold my entire life. Therefore, I am thinking of having a girlfriend myself now because that would give me the peace that I have never had in my life, but fear of Allah keeps me from doing that.