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Hurt and confused by my boyfriend’s constant anger

He has so much anger and resentment about past issues which I told him its from the devil, just forgive as Allah forgives bigger sins. But then he gets angry at me saying what about my pride. My family was willing to talk to him and apologize and fix things to make me happy, but he would not speak to them. He isn’t a bad person, but just can’t control his anger.

After 6 years in a relationship she won’t marry me

She’s stated that things are really messed for her in her head and surroundings and she needs to figure things out, that she wants to be alone, she wants me to carry on with life, she feels like I come in the way of her decisions and that she can’t risk it anymore because its changing her as a person.

Should I reject him for his modesty?

Now, I have spoken with many guys before, but never have I met someone who is willing to approach me the Islamic way and show modesty to not only me but other women. Should I reject him because he is modest and shy around women?

I want to marry, but she is afraid of being disowned by her Chowdhary parents

I am thinking if I ask for her hand her family will say no because my father is Molvi. I love her and want to marry her, but she is reluctant now thinking she will get disowned. She said to me that we can stay friends only.

His family won’t accept my non-muslim family.

I understood that the only way for me to live life as a Muslim is to marry him, and he too understood all these later. The real problem came when he presented this to his family. His family is not ready to accept a girl from a non-muslim family. He tried to convince them, telling my situation. But they are not accepting.

His Pakistani parents won’t allow him to marry me!

I’m a 19 years old bengali girl, who fell for a pakistani guy M (sorry i don’t want to mention any names) who’s turning 22 soon. I am certainly madly in love with him, and he is too with me. Anyways he became part of my life, roughly I used to spend 8-9 hours talking to him. I was so used to having him around and being there for me. I can’t thank him enough for that.

Can I marry without my parents’ consent?

I am an 18 year old revert of 3 years and I have met a brother that I would like to marry in sha Allah. He has asked them about marriage and they have refused, telling me to complete my university degree, begin a career and then they will consider it.

How can I get over the person I love?

I am a student and liked my senior for two years now. He is 7 years elder than me. We have been friends since two years and have initially talked on chatting and messages. Initially I did not like him but with the passage of time I developed attachment for him. I always prayed whatever is happening in this relationship is ALLAH’s will.

Will Allah be happy with us for our sacrifice?

I like to know that, whether Allah will be happy for our sacrifice. I love a girl and she loves me too. WE prayed to Allah more then a year and also did lots of umrah and also prayed in the place of Dua in Kaaba. She said her wish to her parent and said she asked allah only for him and allah knows her heart. But father does not accept it because of status and society.

Can I leave my home to marry a good man without my parent’s blessings?

I have a question , I am 27 years old lady living at home and i work in a highly respected job . Whilst I was studying I met a guy who is 35 (now) and who has asked for my proposal from 2 years ago . He is from an Arab country and I […]