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Never dated in fear of sinning but I failed once
I am at a stage where I have realized that the man I thought I was in love with only wanted a physical relationship and not the halal (permitted by Allah) path which is marriage. I was in a vicious circle where I would break up with him and then go back to him. Finally, even though it hurt me to pieces, I was able to let go with Allah’s help. And finally I did it. I did it for me but for the most I did it to please Allah and to stop this dirty and harmful relationship.
Is there any conflict between Istikhara and my own personal dua?
I am doing istikhara for the past 2 days, I do it after Isha prayer but I dont sleep after that (I’ve heard that dreams are not necessary). So for the past 2 days my feelings are still the same, nothing seems unusual, no change in feelings, no sign or anything.
He’s trying to decide whether to pick me or his family
My whole life I waited to meet the right guy and I finally did when I was 18. We started going out and I made it clear to him that I was with him because I felt that he had potential to be my husband..
His parents are refusing to consent to our marriage
I met a man in August 2009 and we started talking on the phone as he had seen me with a friend and he was interested to get to know me better. We talked on the phone for about a month and then decided to meet face to face and have dinner at a restaurant. This became a weekly thing as well as numerous daily phone calls to each other as well. After 3 months of the same routine, I decided to tell my parents about him.
Boyfriend’s parents won’t accept me
My best friend introduced me to her cousin as she knew i wanted to find the right man to settle down with (I know realise this was not the right way now and Allah swt says things for our own benefit now). We started talking and after 6months became boyfriend and girlfriend.
While recovering from a surgery, my fiancée left me, please pray for me
I’m in great pain and despair! I do not know what wrong have I done that Allah is punishing me.
I am a 33 year old Muslim woman and as any other woman my dream has always been to be happily married to a good Muslim man. I never believed in “dating” and boyfriend girlfriends when I was going to university all my friends even sisters who wear hijab had boyfriends but I never did that stuff always studied and always believed that when Allah wants he’ll give me that man I wish for.
I discovered my husband secret conversations with his cousin
From the moment we married he kept sleeping one night at his cousins house as he had moved in with me and he felt lonely. I felt disrespected as he slept away from me once a week and then when he was in the house he chose to sleep on the floor…
In one meeting he made me feel cheap and small
A few weeks ago, I went to see him in a restaurant just to have a chat, that’s all. It started up ok but slowly I found it he was being a bit selfish. At the end, I felt humiliated.
He is giving up proposal due to negative Istikhara
I´m in love with a guy who has expressed the same feelings for me.
Everything was done between our families but now they have seen Istikhara and had a bad dream so they don´t want to proceed up with this overture. At our place
Parent’s disappointment is making me miserable
I have one brother & one sister they both study medicine, but I didn’t because I’ m not well educated. Because of that I feel like my parents are not loving me….
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