Tag Archive for ‘relationships’

My husband had cyber sex with 5 other women and I don’t know what to do?
I got married to my boyfriend and I love him to bits but I have come to know that he has been cheating on me with 5 other women who he was having cybersex. I knew all this before marriage and he promised me that he stopped one month before our marriage but he lied to me.

Seeking Allah’s help to solve all problems in my marriage.
My problem is that within 4 months into our marriage, he was diagnosed with diabetes. Since then, either he or I have been facing health problems one after another. Also, we are unable to have a baby and my treatment fell through as well…

My parents forced me to marry my cousin, I don’t like him and want divorce
I was forced to marry my husband 15 years ago by my parents but I never liked him even though I have 2 daughters from him. I have told my parents several times but they don’t agree and support my decision to divorce my husband. Also, my husband doesn’t want to divorce me and whenever I raise the issue, he goes crying to my parents who threaten to disown me if I get divorced.

I lost consciousness and someone abused me.
I recently converted to Islam Alhamdullilah and Insha Allah I am going to get married to a wonderful man, whom is brother of my best friend’s husband. My problem is that I am not a virgin and don’t know if I should tell him or not? Before I converted to Islam; I never had a boyfriend or anything like that; I never dated but I was going through a terrible time at home.

Dominating older sister
I am a younger sister, and there is eleven years difference in age. My older sister is dominating in always and at times can make me feel claustrophobic. She is dominating in the sense that in conversation and discussion she leads and can never be wrong, and if she decides she wants to do something or go somewhere, i too MUST oblige

Is it a coincidence or is there a real connection?
My husband lives abroad and he is a righteous person Masha Allah. He always asks me to offer 5 times prayers and thanks Allah (swt) all the time for everything. However, I feel like I am drifting away from my religion and also I lie to my husband sometimes. I have noticed that whenever I commit any sin, my husband suffers from some kind of loss.

In love with a guy who I want to marry but he is delaying marriage.
I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years before I became more practicing. I want to get married to him but he is delaying marriage because he wants to be financially stable and mature first before marriage. Also, I have been trying to get him to practice religion and learn about Islam but he doesn’t understand and we end up arguing and these arguments are getting bigger and bigger. We argue on very little things and often I feel unhappy, lonely and sad and have no one to tell as my parents are not aware of my relationship.

Love marriage and pre-marital relationships in Islam
I am a young Muslim man and I am in a relationship with a Muslim girl. We love each other, respect each other, care for each other and are very much happy together. I am practising myself and offer my 5 times prayers and come from a noble family. She is also very nice girl, practising, prays 5 times a day and do extra prayers as well, recites Holy Quran regularly and attend Quran learning classes regularly.

My ex is cursing me because I finished with him due to his haram lifestyle
I wanted to ask question regarding the solution to a problem that I am facing right now. I was going to get married to a guy. Both families met and agreed to our marriage. Everything went well from both sides Alhamdullilah. However after a while, the guy I was going to get married started to act strange. He witnessed his friend’s death and this changed him to a totally different person. He was facing a lot of problems and had family responsibilities as he was the eldest in the family. His father passed away before he was so, he had no father figure around him.

Father not agreeing to my choice of guy for marriage without any valid reasons
I have been friends with a guy for 4 years and want to marry him but my father is not agreeing to this marriage without any valid reason. He is a practising Muslim and I have done Istakhara which gave me good feelings but I can’t get married to him because I don’t have permission from my father (Wali). My mother is happy with my choice but I need my fathers approval as he is my Wali, to have a valid Nikkah/marriage.