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My husband keeps divorcing me and then taking me back

My husband of 5 years abuses me emotionally and has divorced me several times already. He always takes me back the next day though.

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I want to become his second wife, but not publicly

The man I wish to marry is someone I know. He is married. I am not asking for public recognition, rather we have a private nikaah with a small number of people.

I’m his secret second wife, and I want out!

I’m probably very selfish, but I do not accept his wife…I can’t accept her. Why? I’m born in Europe, from a Christian family, and as you know we don’t accept many wives. I’m not ready to accept her, and I will never be. I don’t see her as a sister. I’m depressed, I cry a lot, and I cant stand this situation any more.

We can’t cut our tie to one another

Even when he got married, he would still text me and tell me how much he loved me and that he wants to marry me. He is not happy with his wife, and he used to blame me for everything because I didn’t take a stand and marry him against my parents wishes.

I’m a 2nd wife living with 1st, husband makes love to 1st but ignores me

It’s been over 6 months since he’s touched me, he says he no longer wants to be with me and now I have to put up with them cuddling and kissing while I am ignored. I feel left out, hurt and jealous.

My husband was pushed into marrying twice.. Should i stay or should i go..

He repeats over and over that he did not want to re marry so soon, and that i am the one to blame.

Losing hope for my marriage

How can I still believe…?

Husband having a kid with the 2nd wife

I’m worried that if she has a child she will make things a lot worse for me. I’m scared of the outcome.

Struggles in Being a Second Wife in Islam

I have grown in a culture that polygamy is not allowed… I cannot stay in a situation like his denying me to his first wife and we keep lying..

Is the Nikka Valid?

It was under false intentions. Also, he never paid the mahr.