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Polygamy, finances and my rights as a 2nd wife?
As much as I dreamed of having my own husband to love, I have had to think long and hard and now think being a 2nd wife to someone is my only option…
Is this proposal for nikah halal valid?
He proposed marriage, I accept, thinking would be a second wife, but he answered that in his country polygamy is not permitted, asked me to be his nikah halal, wants to keep it a secret.
Concerns on Becoming a Second Wife
I cannot ask him to divorce his first wife to get married to me. Plus, being the only child, my mom is not agreeing to get me married to this man with 2 kids.
I destroyed my life for the man I loved…
i never wanted to have a sexual relationship with someone before marriage let alone someone who left me for marriage and I have myself to blame. I can’t seem to move on… I feel totally destroyed.
We’re tired of being his secret family!
I kept asking what’s his plan for his kids? Is he going to let his family know? When? He said to give him time. What??? It’s been 15 yrs, I’m here alone with the kids doing everything for them…
Would being his second wife be legal in america?
If I marry him in Egypt, will I have a document that states I am legally his wife so I can validate this marriage in the USA and give him residency? We see this as an option because here he can get a good job. I think he can make enough money to make sure his son can have all he needs, and his son’s mom will not be struggling because of money.
Her behavior is changing since we did Istikharah
We have done istikhara. I have thrice been awarded by Allah his Raza. But she couldn’t see anything. Now she is asking me to see some Aalim and then only decide whether to go further or not. Also there is a marked turning point in her behavior.
Should I consider his request of second marriage?
I was a virgin before I met this man, and honestly believed I would end up marrying him so I commited zina with him. Because of this I found it very difficult to let go and accept the situation of him lying, treating me badly and leaving me. I knew I should have cut all ties with him. I asked Allah to forgive me for all the wrongs I did during our relationship, however I still feel I need him in my life and cannot seem to forget and move on.
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