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Pregnancy and nikkah.

Salaams, I am currently 8 months pregnant by  my “boyfriend”. I struggled a lot with the decision to keep the baby, but chose to do so as I thought it was islamically and morally the right thing to do. I have my family’s support to keep the baby, but they do not approve of the […]

Husband has not told his future second wife we are married.

I don’t know what will happen… will he divorce me when she arrives? His family only agreed because of my suggestion, but the situation has changed.

How shall I take this lady as a second wife?

assalaam alaikum, I am a doctor in India. I have a family going on fine by Allah’s grace. I am in close relation with a lady who is a new Muslim who is living single. I care for her so much that I wish to marry her as my second wife, and protect her and give her […]

My husband wants a second wife because of my absence

I have to stay in my sister’s house and hide for I don’t have any residence visa anymore because I choose to follow what my husband told me. To resign from my previous company where am I working and he will come out after few weeks only and he will make my visa. Almost 2 years I am waiting for him to come out but still he didn’t make my visa. So I left the country and went back to my country to see my family and to fix my visa. When I came back to my husband’s country I was been hold by immigration for 4-5 hours just only then I learned that I have life time ban… I caught my husband chatting with other woman and telling them he’s single and he’s looking for serious relationship. Then I asked him why he’s doing this he told me he just gets bored at home alone… he send me SMS telling that he will get married and that’s it… Is it because of my absence physically that make him do haram things? All of this is my fault?

Can I marry this person if I married in America

I am an american citizen legally married in the united states. However, I have met this wonderful person in Pakistan and I would like to marry her. I have had conversations with her and have been very honest with her and have informed her that I am legally married in the U.S. and have a wife there. She accepts me as I am and is willing to become my second wife. Can I have a second wife in Pakistan and marry her in pakistan? I don’t know if this is allowed or not. Also, if the Pakistan courts and governments will allow me to marry her. Please, I need some advice and opinions.

Am I allowed to take Khula because my husband loves his other wife more?

I returned home with my son and I saw that my husband was getting married again! I screamed and cried but no one was listening. My sister in law and her daughter told me to leave with my son and never come back. But I refused to go and my co-wife who is a revert took some sympathy on me and requested my husband to let me stay.

Worried about being a second wife

we liked each other but i did not know he was married not until one day i called him at night and the wife received the phone. i was so dissapointed

Can I marry again, whilst going through my divorce?

Obviously it is not possible in the UK to be legally married to more than one woman. But I believe that it would be possible to go through the Islamic ceremony (Nikah) and perform the civil marriage at a later date. My hope is that this would mean that we were married in Allah’s eyes and could start our life together.

I married a man as a second wife who kept our relationship hidden from his family.

Nothing is as I thought it would be or as it should be. I knew he was married – I knew I would be a second wife. What I did not know is he would keep me a secret from ALL of his family. He’s planning on coming to stay in America in January. My question is simple. I do not agree in any form being a secret. I want to know my rights according to Islam.

I’ve been seeing a married Muslim guy secretly for years

After he was married for 3 months he told me he had made a terrible mistake and that he loves me and for the last 3 years we have been in a relationship (non-physical).