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Want to get out of my depressed condition

i feel like a worthless creature. on the top if that my family alwz thinks me to be a very nice gal when they will get to knew this my brothers wnt evn trust me.i have broken thr trust . i want to take that person out of my head and also out of my life. want to lead a pious life as before.

I feel my husband is weak and does not tawakal al Allah

I tell him he too will be successful inshallah and should be thankful for Allah that he has a good wife who is taking care of him (I doubt many woman will accept this responsibility) and a healthy baby. He says alhamdulah and acknowledges that what am saying is right but I can feel it in his face and his attitude that his iman is weak. Astagfirallah its like he does not trust Allah or accept what happens.

My husband is cheating and admitted that he is only with me for the sake of our child; what to do?

He was apologetic at first but then admitted he hated our marriage and is only with me because of our child. He doesn’t talk to me but is willing to have a sexual relationship – that is the only thing we have between us. He doesn’t love me but I am afraid to let go, I want some Islamic solution, do I walk away or forgive, if I forgive…HOW do I forgive?

I need help in gaining confidence

I don’t know what I should do . I dont know what to do. When I see people fat high scores then me I feel upset. I feel very sad, I don’t know what I should do. Also to make matters worse, today my grandma was talking to me and my sisters on skype. So she has seen us after six years. My grandma to be honest I don’t know how to describe her. She was always mean to my mom because she was dark skin. However, my mom doesn’t deal with that no more because we came to America and has been living here for almost 14 years.

Always felt like a bad person, cheated on boyfriend and being blackmailed.

I am writing because all my life I have felt deep down like a bad person. My youngest memories as a very very small child were of lying awake at night (EVERY night) crying until I fell asleep out of fear of death and that God (at that time I had only really been educated about Christianity and even so, only of a little of that religion), would judge me as evil.

None of my proposals materialise

I am writing in today as I have started feeling incredibly low again, I just feel as though life is full of CONSTANT hurdles and I keep losing motivation. I know I should be grateful to Allah swt for everything I have, but I have been dying for one particular happiness for a long while now but despite my efforts I am not seeing any results. I had a horrible expereince when I first set out to find a suitable spouse and it traumatised me, it took me a long while to recover from it but I have.

Can I marry a girl who is taller than me?

I am 21 years old boy. I am short in height. My height is 5 feet 1 inch. For this I got into many harassment. I pray to Allah for this. So there you see, I love a girl. I think she is a good girl. I am shorter than her.

Does penis size matter?

Sir how are you? I have a lot of tension about my penis because it’s about 3 inches in size and quite thin.

My parents don’t love me anymore like they did before

my elder sister has done better than me in education and now i feel my parents love her more than me and don’t value me anymore. i always curse myself for not fulfilling my parents dream of becoming a Dr. i want to die but i know committing a suicide is haraam.

Question about Intercourse in marriage, Rights & Penis Size

Salam, I am very concerned about my penis. it has average length but it is VERY THIN. I have had sexual intercourse (Which i Regret and am REPENTING to Allah for that).
I am trying my best to pray 5 times now and asking Allah for forgiveness and become a good muslim..