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Feeling very shy and alone

Why this is happening, is this my mistake or is given by God? And what can I do to make myself better and make new friends? I feel very lonely too.

I feel too weak to live

I don’t have the right words to explain what I’m going through but it hurts…

Extreme depression and feeling of suicide

I am suffering from depression and it’s getting worse. My dreams disturb me… I have lost interest in my studies and feel upset always.

Abusing, controlling mother in law, ruined my marriage, my life, I feel dead inside…

She says the worst and evil things as bout her son that i wanna put fingers in my ears and start screaming but obviously i am not allowed to stop her, or say that i am hurt we can’t take your abuse anymore please never do it again. And then when my hubby comes back she flips her face and talks to him so sweetly that i become so shocked on her cleverness.

Teenage problems with sexual feelings

Many of my friends are homosexuals. Sometimes they force me to do the same thing with them…

My complexion makes me undeserving of happiness and love

Now all my cousins are getting married. I don’t know whether anyone will ever accept me, because everyone wants beautiful girl in my south asian society. Considering the fact that throughout my whole life many people made me realize that I am not beautiful, I don’t think I’ll ever get married!

I have a lot to offer, but my parents are not getting me married.

I cannot tell my family about my depression. I just don’t know how to communicate this to my parents that I want to get married. There are a lot of really close unmarried females in my family, and they are really unhappy and I am terrified. I am really tired of being misunderstood, and I don’t want to disrespect my parents. I just dont know how to go about it.

I have been having lots of problems with my mother

Furthermore, she doesn’t only swear- she also uses other sexually abusive words against me which makes me cringe. My mum is always looking for ways to get my dad to beat me or my brother. Because of my mum, I used to get bullied school and I also had low self esteem.

I read my friend’s diary by accident and found out she has some issues, please help me understand her

My friend is my age (18) both in college. But she’s been in and out of depression (mostly in) for 4 years and a half, her family think that she’s just weird and that’s how she is. But no I know something’s wrong! A few days ago she left her iPod next to me and I didn’t think she’d mind, I picked it up and went to her notes, and she had written that SAME NIGHT this,

I am so frustrated and always in fear.

I want to get advice on this. I overthink a lot about everythng even if the thing wont happen but ii just keep on think about it and end being mad or sad

Iif anyone says that just forget and havee ptience then bro/sis this nt realy helping me but ming me worse that ii gt over this