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I am so frustrated and always in fear.

Fear

It's a terrible thing to live in fear

asalamalaykum everyone

I want to get advice on this. I overthink a lot about everythng even if the thing  wont happen but ii just keep on think about it and end being mad or sad. Iif anyone says that just forget and havee ptience then bro/sis this nt realy helping me but ming me worse that ii gt over this

Ii am realy frustrated ii don'tt know why but ii cry alott, ii have so much insidee myself am  ffull of tnsion  that ii can feel my head will burst  soon. I am nt getting over the betrayal ii keep on thinkng about that boy who has mved on and have many rlations out there

Ii am full of fears ii just want myy self to get calm,I wake up at night pray to allah butt bro/sis iii want to get a advice wich wll hlp me ii am realy tired of this burden on my head and just cryin

Ii realy am afraid of everythng smthng is totchring me inside myself and am realy fearing that m gting insane,, ii take a lot of worries am almost mad ii think stupid..believe me a going insane:'( please help me out ii want to b normal ii want my mind to b calm.. any of ou ll b saying hve pateince than plz ii request ii want to have somethng new advice, doing aallah ii do it,, but please guide mE ,, ii am realy a burden to my slf.. very young,, and when ii hv a luk at knife ii feel let me jus cut my self  and make my self free,,I knw ii ll go to hell and its much more worse but please advic me on this with somthng else

He's realY happy with having soo many relations if he's happy then y not mE I ii don't want to carE plz help

I keep making cnversations of him and me which even evEr happen then when think all this ii say y r u doing this when this hppen ii feel looser then its like he even think abt mme then y do ii? ii just go crazy tht wat the hell m ii doing?ii realy think it has afected me meantaly and ii am just crazy:/

I realy get stupid dreams which have any meaning and when wake up then ii think even in dreams am just a looser,, and ii hate people alott,, ii dnt know why but ii hate everyone,,I smile when everyone is there buut ii realy keep thinking what a fake smile ii get so frustrated,,m bcoming lzy am missing all the conversations ii had with that boy please advice  somthng please,, worlds every emotional problem is upon me huh ii just help my self

I feel if is it a spell magic on me coz ,, ii knw its wierd saying but ii am good lookng enough many of sisters tel me u got very nice features and all they say I can do anythng though they don't know anythng about my problem...I dwell over that boy y then? y m ii doing so? ii had  a freind who was expert iin casting spell,, she told me she can cast a spell that i can get over him and he will be wnting me,,, ii was very surprised that oh this is posible,, so she just told me to giv her my and tht boys pic.. and then ii emailed 1  of the brother of islamicadvice who told me its a sin a major sin...I got realy scared.. my freind told me to gve her 100$ to cast the spell and then ii refused,, she said ok and she dint realy get angry or anything,, so now ii am thinkng by saying all this may be it came on me..bcose ii realy every second think abt him, and ii think it would be so nice if she culd cast the spell and ii wud b free.. bro/sis ii dontt know what is hapeng to me.. am realy going crazy with sch a burden in my self please help me out with somthng

Ple se d o helap me as best as u can

Jazakallah


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  1. "iamlost", if I am not mistaken you are the same person who wrote this previous post, right? -

    I broke up with my boyfriend and can’t move on; please help me

    That was only a month ago, and you received 61 responses. If you have anything to add, you can add it on your previous post. Therefore I am closing this post to comments.

    I wish you the best in your situation. May Allah ease your heart and relieve your distress.

    Wael
    IslamicAnswers.com Editor