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After cheating on me with my cousin, he is begging for forgiveness

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I am a 23-year-old woman.

In four months from now, my wedding is supposed to happen. My partner and I made a serious mistake by engaging in fornication… we both sincerely repented.

A few days ago, I found out that my partner, who is 25 years old and supposedly a good Muslim who prays 5 times daily plus tahajjud, is cheating/fornicating on me with his cousin! Not only that, but my fiancé is also addicted to porn videos.

They are begging and apologizing for what they did. I feel completely shattered because I love him. I can’t think of another marriage because I feel I’m no longer clean/pure.

He is asking for forgiveness in the name of Allah and promises not to repeat the mistake. He is swearing in the Name of Allah I’ve to give him another chance to prove himself… He also said he’ll do the best to please me and that I shouldn’t leave him.

I'm not sure what to do next. Should I give him another chance or should I move on and find a new partner?


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  1. Repent for your mistakes… don’t take him back see it as a blessing you have seen his true colours before marriage

    • Please don't make the mistake of marrying him. He's already shown you his colour. You'll find someone who will accept you as you are. Just repent and don't ever go near Zina again.

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