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I converted to Islam for him, but he married another girl

I had an emotional relationship with a man I met in college….he deceived me to get my attention, but married another. I am devastated.

I lied that I miscarried his baby…how can I earn his forgiveness?

I lied to my ex-boyfriend, telling him that I was pregnant with his baby at one time. How can I come clean and get his forgiveness when we’re not even talking anymore?

Should I marry my fiance after news of her previous relationship?

I found out that my fiance has had intimate and sexual relations with another. Should I consider her past in my decision to marry her?

We had a relationship but he married another. How do I move on?

I loved a man who eventually married another girl. We sinned, but it was true love…or so I thought. How do I stop hoping for a life with him? What if Allah gives us a second chance?

My boyfriend abandoned me when he found out I am pregnant

He doesn’t want to be involved in the baby’s care, and would like termination of the pregnancy. If baby is not terminated, he says he will not pay child support.

I’m from a broken family so his parents won’t give their consent

I had put a lot of effort for this relationship as it was a long-distance one. It keeps haunting me that he will soon marry another girl and maybe he’ll stay happy.

He’s blocked me even though my Istikhara was positive.

I tried commiting suicide once because I could not get over him. I left my career for him. I fought with everyone around for him. He promised me to marry in the past.

Will my future wife also have engaged in sexting?

I never wanted to do this and as Allah says in Quran “Pure women for pure men”. I don’t want my wife’s past to be like mine.

We want to get physical but our marriage is 3 years away!

My fiancé and I want to become physical but our marriage is 3 years away. Can we do a secret marriage?

Help needed regarding future marriage

Will me waiting 5 years for him be healthy for us? How do i go about this in the islamic way?