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I got khula from court against my husband but my family is forcing me to live with him. Is my khula valid?

I got married in march 2007 to my maternal cousin. This was a forced marriage as I didn’t want to get married. But my parents emotionally blackmailed me, my husband, his mother and my mother promised me that he won’t demand any physical relation until I complete my education. I agreed on this base. I was abused sexually, physically and psychologically by my husband and my parents. I asked my husband to divorce me but he refused. Before seeking khula I spoke to my husband and told him that I cannot fulfill his sexual needs as hatred fills within me whenever I see him and all the issues between us and requested him to divorce me.

Am I in an haram relationship?

I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.

I keep thinking about abortion due to my cheating with this other man while married to my husband.

Earlier this year, I made the biggest mistake of committing adultary. I was married at the time to my husband and had been married to him for over a year. I told him what I had done and asked for forgiveness from him and from Allah (swt) and my husband had forgiven me and has accepted all of this. My feelings are very confused for this baby as I wanted a baby with my husband and wanted to settle down, I know this baby is my husband’s 98%. When I was intimate with this other man we used protection, thus too makes it impossible for him to be the biological father of the child.

I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.

My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.

Should I tell her about my past before marriage?

I never had sex before marriage, a few years ago I got divorced and since have had sex with two woman, both of whom were non-Muslim. Until now it didn’t bother me but now I am seeing a Muslim girl that I want to marry and I wish I had never been so stupid and that I would have thought about this before I did it. Should I tell her?

Can we have misyaar/mutah marriage or any other legal contract to enjoy our life in a halal way?

I married a woman who forced me to divorce her after 4 years. Our marriage couldn’t succeed I didn’t spend much time with her for the reason that I am already married to my first wife and we have kids together. Our main reason to marry was that we loved each other and our sex life was strong enough to satisfy both of us to the fullest. Now my question is that; can we have a misyaar or mutah marriage or any other legal contract to enjoy ourselves sexually in a halal/legal way?

My father cheats on my mother and he is addicted to pornography as well

My father has been unfaithful to my mother for a number of times. Every time he did it, he always asked for forgiveness and promised to never do it again. My brother made me promise not to disclose this to our mother as he was worried that our family would fall apart.

Pre-marital sex! Am I allowed to marry her?

I am Muslim and had sex with my girlfriend. She was a virgin. I really regret doing that and I am still asking for forgiveness from Allah (swt). We are getting married next year and I wish to know if, I am islamically allowed to marry her? Please tell me; what are the complications?

I lost consciousness and someone abused me.

I recently converted to Islam Alhamdullilah and Insha Allah I am going to get married to a wonderful man, whom is brother of my best friend’s husband. My problem is that I am not a virgin and don’t know if I should tell him or not? Before I converted to Islam; I never had a boyfriend or anything like that; I never dated but I was going through a terrible time at home.

I am not loved by my husband

Assalamualikkum wa rahmathullah……

I dont´ know,… from the very first day of my married life my husband showed some kind of dislike towards me. His dislikes was shown only in front of me not in front of others. Everyone thought, we made a good couple, but the bitterness of our marriage was known by me only….