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Memories of being molested as a child

I don’t really know if I was molested or not, but I have a memory (believe me this extremely hard for me to write and I’m shaking and crying right now)…

My sexual urges are strong from past molestation

The sexual urges I felt at puberty could not be controlled and I came to know how we can watch porn on YouTube. I soon started watching dirty videos, masturbating, repenting and doing the same cycle all over again. I used to do it on and off, and no matter how hard I tried I always end up doing it and then feeling super guilt shortly after.

I need some help for past abuse

I thought Allah hated me and wanted him to hurt me. Even though I know that’s probably not right, I still feel that way sometimes. I feel like Allah hates me. Thats when I go back to my suicidal thoughts. I planned, but I’m too scared. Sometimes though I hurt myself without knowing because I’m just so sad.

My father molested me – so how do I marry the man I love?

We want to marry but my family will never say yes. I am in a foster home so it’s hard. We would like to do a nikkah but as I am in a foster home I have no clue what to do.

My father and brother sexually abused me

If it is not haraam I will feel better that I can just live my life and block him out. But if it is haraam I need to know and any advice of how I should deal with it.

Cheated, hurt and abandoned!!

Does Islam allow us to harm or hurt the people who hurt us… I am so depressed and angry that I want to punish them.

Sex Slavery in Islam?

I am confused about the slave system in Islam. One of my friends tries to justify that if you are buying a slave then that slave is halal… Can I buy a girl from someplace have sex with her for a few days and “release” her?

Masturbating for about 15 years, trying to quit

I don’t know if my childhood has anything to do with it. I’m not trying to give myself an excuse, because simply there’s NOOO excuse for doing such a low thing, and have it as a habit.

Molested by my father who is a Hafiz

He used to wrestle and pins us to the floor, he used to lick our face, kiss us, he used to touch our back. Astagfirullah but I didn’t understand or realised it since I was a teenager. A friend has pointed it out to my sister, she told her once occassion where my dad had pinned her down to the bed and she had felt his private part.

I can’t get inner peace at all

When I was 12 I got into a relationship. I promised I wont do anything bad, but I did. I did everything else except intercourse. I’m still a virgin, I feel HELL, you know what it is?