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I want to marry him soon. Can I?

He wishes to marry me but he is married now. I’m single.

Sex before marriage and its consequences…

I was forced into sex… later, I kissed a few boys… My potential partner has told me that he’ll marry me but won’t ever share a bed with me, kiss me, or hug me. He doesn’t want to touch me.

boy has cat eyes

                    I want to marry a boy, but there is a little problem. I heard that boys who have cat eyes will not be good for a girl’s family members. The boy who I am going to marry has cat eyes, please tell me if it’s true or not. […]

Should I lower my expectations and get married? What if I am never happy?

Should i really just get over myself and lower my expectations and get married to him? I keep thinking yes that i have to. But then i think what is the point of girls struggling so much, getting such high education, struggling to get competitive jobs, when at the end of the day they just have to lower their expectations and just settle.

Should I marry him, even when he is being unfaithful?

He says that he could never commit to one woman but would still want to marry me. He moved in with one woman and is bouncing between two houses. He even got one of the women pregnant.

Need Help-Should i Marry him?

How can I believe him as they say “Old Habits die Hard”?

In love but my Mum says no

His family came to my house to ask for my hand but my mum said no straight away without even getting to know the family. He decided he still ain’t going to leave me and we can work something out.. so we decided to do istikhara…

Should I believe his interest in me?

I am an unmarried girl. My uncle met a person. This person studied in & working in London & searching for a good match. But then many months passed without contact. Now he says he wants to make me his second wife.

He is very controlling and strict; Should I marry him or break this relationship off?

Is he ever going to change? Is he going to always be around me? Is he going to leave me if I do something wrong? Is my age going to become a factor in our relationship? Please PLEASE Please help me!

The only thing holding me back from accepting his proposal is his lack of education

My mother just told me that this winter when we go to Pakistan she wants my nikah to be done. I know who the guy is and I have known him and his family since about 1994 if not earlier. We grew up togather and I am best friends with his younger sister. His entire family loves me. As for him, Im pretty sure he likes me- we get along, talk etc. The only problem is education. I only have 3 more semesters left to get my BA (USA citizen) but he didnt even go to college. Other then that he does have a job in Pakistan and people are just naturally attracted to him (meaning he is really outgoing etc).