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Tag Archive for ‘sins’

Sexual thoughts and feelings

I have many strong thoughts and feelings sexually… in my state of depression I committed horrible sins.

How should I deal with selfish, jealous and interfering people? And any du’a for releasing debts?

When she had a first baby (with my brother) and second i went there bearing gifts and i use to go all out balloons, gifts and i mean expensive but yet when they first found out that i was pregnant the first thing she said was “is she going for an internal check up” who says that!

How shall my wife and I forget our past sins?

Me and my wife committed zina before got married. We have been married for 4 years now but at times have noticed that our marriage is not strong due to the zina we committed before our marriage…

Want to be good wife and also make up missed fasts

I am 23 years old and Iam married and have 8months daughter mashallah. I want to confess, I have done some bad things with my husband I lied to him still shukuralhumdulliah he gave me chance to become a good person. The problem is still he is angry with me well that’s normal, and he said that it will take him 4/5 years to become normal with me.

What is difference between wet dream and masturbations?

I heard about masturbation which is a major sin but I don’t touch my private parts or insert anything in them. I am confused because I don’t want to commit any sin; either small or big. I don’t know how to get out of this problem? So, can you explain me what is the difference between masturbation and wet dream?

How can I overcome my thoughts and go near to Allah

I committed great sins in my past and always wanted to repent but why I do I feel that Allah won’t forgive me? When I stand for prayer I feel as I’m not pure, may be Allah does not like me. He won’t answer my prayers. I always consider myself bad, sometimes I think if I will do hajj, I will be pure and good again.

Should I reveal my past to my husband to be?

I am going to marry this guy with the will of my family later this year inshAllah!! He is a really nice guy and I like him too.

I am confused if I should tell him about my past??

My husband forced me to reveal my past to him

My husband and I met and fell in love. Right from the start he told me about his past: his girlfriends, how many women he had slept with as well as many other sins, and also that he was neither praying nor fasting at the moment (and he still is not). I accepted it and thought that we all do mistakes and that Allah (swt) is forgiving.

My past is bothering my spouse & now he has changed towards me.

I am 21 years old, born and raised in Canada. My partner is also 21, He was born in Afghanistan, stayed there until he was 1 years old. Raised in Russia for a few years, then Dubai, Holland, then back to Afghanistan for 5 years. These 6 years were during his teen years, from age 14-20. Just a month after he turned 20, he came to the United States.

Parents are still punishing me for things that happened a long time ago

I’m 17 years old and I am having a lot of problems with my parents. I made mistakes in my past when I first started high school. My parents were so harsh on me when they found out about it all. I did feel guilty and since then I am trying to fix my life up and just be a good Muslim and make my parents happy.