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I have nothing in life and have reached my breaking point

I’m in my 30s and feel that by now, I should have a job, a wife, and a better car. Why is everyone around me getting things even though I pray so much?

Does Allah hate me?

I am so stressed out… feeling like committing suicide… why is Allah doing this to us?

My life compared to hers…

I was a good girl and I’ve been through a lot, I thought I deserved the best whereas my friend did the bad and got good life!

Homosexuality – Why such a hard test from Allah? Test or punishment?

Could someone please tell me – when would the help of Allah come to me? How would I know if it’s a test or am I getting punished?

I destroyed my life for the man I loved…

i never wanted to have a sexual relationship with someone before marriage let alone someone who left me for marriage and I have myself to blame. I can’t seem to move on… I feel totally destroyed.

Istekhara for css exam

Should I do istekhara? Since I don’t read the 5 times prayers, I doubt the perfect execution of istekhara within myself, so should I ask somebody else to do it? Or can you recomend somebody online to ask to do it for me?

I don’t want to sell alcohol, but my parents think I’m a hypocrite!

I am an 19 year old muslimah living in the west. Since I have to pay my stuff myself, insurance and all (my parents want me to learn how to deal with money). I worked at a supermarket as a cashier. So I scanned the stuff and took the money. But since I live in the west the supermarkets sell alcohol. So frequently I had to scan the alcohol, the pork and some other haram stuff. I didnt feel good about it, so I did a bit of research and I found out that it is not permisseble to work at such a place. And that I’m doing haram buy scanning the article, I am actually assisting them with the haram stuff.

Once again broken so much

I have only one brother and he is just 4 years old. He had open heart surgery when he was born and recently the doctor told us that he needs to have another open heart surgery soon. I am so broken because I don’t want to go through the whole process all over again.

What is Islam’s perspective of ‘giving up’ on something?

Hi, I am turning 19 this year and even though it is a new year, I feel no sense of starting afresh due to what I am currently going through. After Secondary School, I manage to enter a well recognized Institution and a course which every parent would be proud to brag about. However, ever since I entered this course, my life took a turn, but for the worse.

Bad thoughts about Allah

I try to believe in Allah and try to build my iman, but sometimes bad thoughts come in my mind about Allah.