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Does Allah hate me?

I am so stressed out… feeling like committing suicide… why is Allah doing this to us?

My life compared to hers…

I was a good girl and I’ve been through a lot, I thought I deserved the best whereas my friend did the bad and got good life!

Homosexuality – Why such a hard test from Allah? Test or punishment?

Could someone please tell me – when would the help of Allah come to me? How would I know if it’s a test or am I getting punished?

I destroyed my life for the man I loved…

i never wanted to have a sexual relationship with someone before marriage let alone someone who left me for marriage and I have myself to blame. I can’t seem to move on… I feel totally destroyed.

Istekhara for css exam

Should I do istekhara? Since I don’t read the 5 times prayers, I doubt the perfect execution of istekhara within myself, so should I ask somebody else to do it? Or can you recomend somebody online to ask to do it for me?

I don’t want to sell alcohol, but my parents think I’m a hypocrite!

I am an 19 year old muslimah living in the west. Since I have to pay my stuff myself, insurance and all (my parents want me to learn how to deal with money). I worked at a supermarket as a cashier. So I scanned the stuff and took the money. But since I live in the west the supermarkets sell alcohol. So frequently I had to scan the alcohol, the pork and some other haram stuff. I didnt feel good about it, so I did a bit of research and I found out that it is not permisseble to work at such a place. And that I’m doing haram buy scanning the article, I am actually assisting them with the haram stuff.

Once again broken so much

I have only one brother and he is just 4 years old. He had open heart surgery when he was born and recently the doctor told us that he needs to have another open heart surgery soon. I am so broken because I don’t want to go through the whole process all over again.

What is Islam’s perspective of ‘giving up’ on something?

Hi, I am turning 19 this year and even though it is a new year, I feel no sense of starting afresh due to what I am currently going through. After Secondary School, I manage to enter a well recognized Institution and a course which every parent would be proud to brag about. However, ever since I entered this course, my life took a turn, but for the worse.

Bad thoughts about Allah

I try to believe in Allah and try to build my iman, but sometimes bad thoughts come in my mind about Allah.

I’m 14 and got caught by religious parents slow dancing with a guy and now my life has turned upside down

i know this is really long but help me out nd you’ll get hasanat i need to confess i need to feel understood i need adviceeee so bad i’m so confused i want to be everything Allah wants me to be but i ‘m making so many mistakes…