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He doesn’t deliver on promises. I’m at a crossroads

He is a very good talker and promises me the world but has never really delivered on any promise. Other times, he speaks to me like dirt. Our children don’t mind being away from him. I am so confused about whether to go back or not.

I told him the truth about my past and he made my life hell

My husband seems to have an on/off switch for his behavior towards me. He will be nice for several weeks at a time, and abusive the next. He has held my past against me. Am I wrong for still loving him?

Beaten and verbally abused all my life, now lost and hopeless

A lifetime of abuse has taken a toll on me and I now have many physical illnesses that have me vomiting very often and have made me incredibly physically weak, as I feel dizzy and faint of stress, fear and exhaustion.

Life is unfair and unbearable

I don’t know from where to start..but i’m miserable.. so done with life as it has always been like so unfair towards me but i’m scared of death..but this life..is just so unbearable.

My online boyfriend is treating me like I’m worthless

My online boyfriend is calling me names and treating me like I am worthless after we committed zina.

I have suffered for 15 years in marriage to a man who hates all women

He complains about the house being a mess even though he knows i am in pain constantly, and therefore takes his anger out in the girls, how they´re dirty and messy and a dog is cleaner than them.

Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

My father is breaking the family with his verbal abuse

My father mentally torture us siblings and my mother with his words. He didn’t hit us ever, nor my mother. But he use his words and says things that shatter us and our confidence. My mother has never been happy in this marriage, I can see that, but she never says a single word to him.

Confused about my marriage

I was forced into this marriage. My husband has been mentally abusing me every day.

How more patient should I be?!

He has punched me in the back of the head and strangled me. They always say the first few years of marriage is very rough, is this what people mean by rough?!