Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘verbal abuse’

I have suffered for 15 years in marriage to a man who hates all women

He complains about the house being a mess even though he knows i am in pain constantly, and therefore takes his anger out in the girls, how they´re dirty and messy and a dog is cleaner than them.

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Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

My father is breaking the family with his verbal abuse

My father mentally torture us siblings and my mother with his words. He didn’t hit us ever, nor my mother. But he use his words and says things that shatter us and our confidence. My mother has never been happy in this marriage, I can see that, but she never says a single word to him.

Confused about my marriage

I was forced into this marriage. My husband has been mentally abusing me every day.

How more patient should I be?!

He has punched me in the back of the head and strangled me. They always say the first few years of marriage is very rough, is this what people mean by rough?!

My husband calls me names

What does Islam say about Emotional Abuse between a husband and wife?

How can I help my husband??

His mother has broken him over the years with her poisonous words… I do not know what is the right thing to do or say…

I converted to Islam, but my husband says that American girls are worthless

My husband tells me that all amercan girls including me are just bad girls (he uses cuss words). Then later he apologizes for being so bad.

Abusive husband won’t leave

He justifies hitting me that its my fault cuz i get him mad or provoke him and plus he does me the great favor of hitting me in my legs where i can still “live” rather that hitting me places where vital organs are…unless hes more mad he will hit me every where..

My husband’s family have taken my baby away

The only time I saw my baby was when I was breast-feeding. My mother in law demands for my daughter to call her “mum”.