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Abused and beaten in pregnancy

My husband’s sister made me cut myself or she will kill me with a knife herself… Another time they attacked me and I was left paralysed for a time.

Abusive and drug addicted husband

Did I do wrong by admitting to the police that he did this to me?

Very disrespectful son/brother

Should he be thrown out of the house?

Need urgent advice on my marriage life

He beats me and has no respect for me… My family are putting pressure on me that if I do not give him a second chance I will be cursed by Allah.

Betrayed and cheated but i still love him

Im seeking help and advice i been with this guy for 3 1/2 years, we been through so many problems and still together.Our ups and down we stick together but year 2010 month of May I feel something going wrong. I have so many speculation and feeling that he was cheating on me.I found so many hints and so many marks that lead me finding the truth but since i love him so much and we on the process of settling down i just keep those things as nothing and im trying to convinced myself that he still be loyal and honest to me that he will not do such thing to me.

My boyfriend was on drugs and is now violent as I cheated on him

I have been in a relationship that is hitting 2 years and no, unfortunatley we are not married which is forbiden in islam which is one of the many reasons i am here. My other half is a muslim brother which i am thankful for however, i have gotten too close to him over the passed two years and i have infact lost my virginity with him which i am punishing myself over as it is a big sin in islam.

His parents heard some wrong info about me and rejected me

I am a widow for the past 4 and a half years and have 2 children. 8 months ago I met a good muslim guy in my area and we took a liking to each other. He’s a Hafiz so he’d tell me stories about the prophet and teach me things from the Quran. But his family heard some false rumors about me.

I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years, but my father has threatened to kill me if I choose my own husband.

I would like to begin this query by asking Almighty Allah to forgive me for all that I have done. In some way I know I may not have done the right thing but I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore. I live in a family where, for me it has been a nightmare. I know Islam tells you to respect your parents but what my family has done with me I cannot respect my parents.

Her father won’t accept me because we dated

I’m 19 and don’t know what to do. Well you see my girl friend’s father found out we were dating (my girlfriend is 18) and after he hit her all over with a stick. He called me to his house and talked me, he told me what we were doing is haraam (which is 100 percent).

In-laws not returning my jewelry after divorce

I got married in 2001, I soon found that my husband was a A-class drug and alcohol addict who would often hit me. However I did not want to give up and for 6 years I tried everything to help him. During this time he stole from me and beat me alot. I was the sole breadwinner he did not work and then in ramadan 2007 one day I came back from work and he was drunk and started hitting me. I begged him to stop as I was fasting but he did not.