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I was forced to get married by my mother!

However, my smile turned upside down when my mum took me and brother’s passport away and said we weren’t going back to the UK. As you can imagine, I was devastated. I still had another year in secondary school; also I recently got through an audition for a charity theatre company. As a result, I became angry at my mum for the first time!

Husband is acting suspiciously and I dont trust him

Once againe i have to ask your advise regarding my suspicious the thing is i wrote to this web site telling everything is OK after he came back from haj he is changed the thing is he is still loving as always and helpful towards me but still i cant help checking his call log cause he never admitted about what went on and still on the call logs there are calls between him and his cousin now they are calls in the land line numbers not the mobile were one can trace it.

Will Allah permit a man to reject hoor al ayn?

Please do not cite Hadiths about the virility and sexual capabilities of men in Jannah, as I have read them all and have experienced a loss of iman. It has been five years since I came across this topic, and have been extremely hurt by it. It sounds stupid, i know, but throughout my life, I depended and turned to Allah s.w.t. I never knew I would have an amazing, loving husband as I do now, but I always knew that human beings are unfaithful..

Living with In Laws

I am recently married +/- 6 months now. I am living with my inlaws. My husband and I does everything with my in-laws even go on every holiday together, go out every weekend with them. I have spoken to my husband that we need our alone time together and we need to make our own decisions about stuff like going on holidays together.

My husband wants to divorce me because I won’t leave my sister

I’m suffering from Mental illness and Eating disorder. Since im marrid with him his problem is my sis who lives few miles away. She doesn’t follow Islam. But when i was in need of help she was there for me who stopped her work when i was in the hospital.

We fight every day, should I continue the relationship?

As you can read the Title of the post, its about the fact that I am questioning myself if I should continue this affair/word given I have with this young lady. As I have read in before posts from other Muslim brothers and sisters when you intend to marry someone look for the woman that will help you reach higher places in the Islam, so a lady with attention to her Deen. But is it also wrong for me if I have certain expectations such as looks, body size and etc?

Wife wants to move out

Hello, I have been married for 2 years. It has been great with me living with my parents, sisters and everyone has a great relationship. My sisters adore my wife and so do my parents. Also the chores in the house are not the sole responsibility of my wife like in traditional Pakistani families. Basically she has a good life here and not strained or any hardships. However she does not include herself with the family, mainly my parents and is always in our room for majority of the day, only coming down to eat and watch tv after my parents have gone upstairs.

I married a revert but parents want me to divorce her.

Alhamdulillah, she´s living in islam now, but my family members not like this marriage they ask me to divorce but wallahi i don´t like to divorce. But I can’t say anything to my parents.

Ghusl of a deceased woman?

I have few questions regarding washing deceased. I have heard that husband can’t give his wife the last bathe as after the wife dies the nikah becomes invalid, is this true?

Getting over lost love

My name is Asma. I was born and raised in America and my family is from Pakistan. I attended a muslim school since childhood and have tried my best to stay a good muslim throughout my life. A few years ago one of my male relative told me that he was in love with me and wanted to marry me. I also liked him alot and wanted to marry him as well. We talked on the phone several times and met up a few times over a year ( we did not do anything haraam except for talking and holding hands..)