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I lost my virginity and I want to repent.
I am 16 years old and recently (about 2 weeks ago) I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (who is also Muslim). I never planned on losing my virginity before marriage. The moment we had intercourse I was scared and regretted it. I told him to stop then I don’t know why, but I started to cry. I just don’t know what to do at this stage, even though I am guilty for having intercourse before marriage I did it again anyway afterwards.
Should I leave him as he won’t marry me or just stay for the sake of our children?
I have been in a relationship for 5yrs with a Pakistani man and I have 2 children with him and my other children all think he is their dad. He wont marry me. I new him for 18months before we got together when my daughter was just born then I had my son and he still wanted relationship with me. I do everything myself I take nothing from him he gives me nothing in return. Also I didnt find out till after a few years he has a wife and has kids with her; now I feel very trapped.
I am having evil thoughts about the girl I wish to marry due to her past and can’t decide what to do? Please help
am a new Muslim, and 20 years of age and I am having some issues concerning relationships. I’ve known this girl for about nearly all my life and its beeen 3 months now since we confessed our love for each other but we’ve been in love for more than a year and I knew she loved me and that I loved her. I’ve never had sex in my life even though I wasn’t Muslim all my life and have been in several relationships but she told me just recently that she did have sex before with her previous “boyfriend” and he forced her? I cry every night asking for Allah’s help and every time I think about leaving her my heart aches and I just cant do it. I’ve never loved anyone like this in my life, to the point I would fall sick whenever I dont communicate with her.
Can we have misyaar/mutah marriage or any other legal contract to enjoy our life in a halal way?
I married a woman who forced me to divorce her after 4 years. Our marriage couldn’t succeed I didn’t spend much time with her for the reason that I am already married to my first wife and we have kids together. Our main reason to marry was that we loved each other and our sex life was strong enough to satisfy both of us to the fullest. Now my question is that; can we have a misyaar or mutah marriage or any other legal contract to enjoy ourselves sexually in a halal/legal way?
Sex and relationship with a married Muslim man.
I met a man from Gambia 3 months ago and we hit it off. I was extremely shocked at this as I had given him every opportunity to be honest; I asked him numerous times if he was single and each time he assured me that he was. Over the past week he has spoken of this about 3 times and also text me saying “would you marry me”; I replied by asking if that was a text proposal and he said that it was but that he would also do it face to face and on one knee.
My father cheats on my mother and he is addicted to pornography as well
My father has been unfaithful to my mother for a number of times. Every time he did it, he always asked for forgiveness and promised to never do it again. My brother made me promise not to disclose this to our mother as he was worried that our family would fall apart.
He says I must convert, divorce and that I belong to him as his fourth spouse.
I met the man that would enlighten me about ISLAM & convince me that ISLAM is the real religion & make me convert to ISLAM & finally with whom I fell in love with & submitted myself to his will & now I want to divorce my husbandto be Mr’s fourth wife.
My Muslim friend is in a relationship with a Hindu guy; I feel guilty and want to end our friendship.
The problem is that her boyfriend is Indian and he is not Muslim. She says that she is Muslim but doesn’t want to pray, fast, wear hijab or do anything else. She said that once she joked around with my dad about marrying an indian non-Muslim guy; he got angry and said that he will never accept her as his daughter ever again. There is no way he would convert and become a good Muslim as he is not interested. To be honest I really don’t think that he is going to marry her.
Am I divorced? Am I gonna be punished for divorcing my husband?
While we were both very excited about the pregnancy, he asked me to stay home from work because my job was very physical. I loved my husband so much that I waited 14 months for him to be released. While he was in jail, I got an apartment and took care of all the bills, my 2 children. I got a call from my doctor saying that; I had contracted Chlamydia. I begged him to stop and he said he will. Two weeks later they were still talking and they were even in contact with each other while we were at an Islamic conference together for the weekend.
I love a Christian woman, everybody tells me to forget her.
I want to marry her, I tried to convince her many times told her Islam is the right way but presently she isn’t ready to revert back to Islam, it’s may be because I never guided her rightly as I myself was sinner and her parents are working in some Christian missionary…
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