Islamic marriage advice and family advice

i nd help i regret everytin n losing my close ones

salam im 18yr old n i nd help big time i have commimted sooooo many sins n i dnt think allah will eva 4give me n i dnt balme him wel 1st of all i have fallen in luv n i gt pregnant i wntd 2 kp da baby bt my partner said it was 4 da best if we didnt afta tat i gt drunk twice both time regetd it i dnt knw y i do it cnt help myslf nw my partner wnts 2b m8z e said tat he dnt luv me no mre n cnt belive wat i am doing....................i jst wnt sme1 2 show me hw 2 live wid myslf inside of me is dead y should allah s.w.t 4give me he should h8 me.............how do i ask 4 4givness??? PLZ HELP

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  1. Hey saima,

    Look don't worry don't stress out. Islam says a sin commited but wholeheartedly repented for with a determination to leave you rsinful ways will be forgiven and it will be as if no sin was committed in teh first place. If you are truly and sincerely sorry and want to correct you ways than you have nothing to worry about. Turn to religion, put your faith in islam it will keep you away from straying and further sins and take things one step at a time. Everyone goes through problems at all stages of life, you are not alone. Infact you should consider youself lucky that you have this guily conscience which proves God is with you, giving you chances time and time again to return to the right path. Once again, don't stress, everything will be ok with time, you'll see. I am no saint myself, going through my own problems, not alcohol and out of wedlock pregnancies but my entire life has become a lie and i am leading a double life stuck between my parents and the guy i want to be with and the only bad things about him is that he lives in india and is less educated then me although more successful ! I hope we both sort ourseleves out and may God be with us 🙂

  2. JazakaAllah zaara

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