Should I go back to my non muslim husband.
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I have been married for three years, and recently I have been seperated from him due to our religion differences. he was a christian and i am a muslim. Now I have been apart from him for seven months, and recently he has told me that he has opened up to Islam, and he does not believe that Jesus is the son of God. but he is not 100% sure about Islam and needs me to help him study it more.
However I am so lost in figuring out what I need to do, whether I go back to him and teach him more, or just let him be till he figures out that Islam is what he wants on his own. He lets our kid attend islamic schools, go to the masjed, pray, read quran basically everything does not stop me from practicing my religion, now he is willing to fast, and do other islamic things like not drink, or eat pork ect...but some things he isnt sure about.
Please advice me on what I need to, wether go back and give him another chance, or wait. please i need help.
- Norlay
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Dear Sister Norlay,
He is not permissible for you to marry until he has accepted Islam. You should distance yourself from him and avoid relations with him until he has taken his shahada in front a congregation of Muslims. If you go back to him, he might decide not to be Muslim OR Christian. If you want a healthy lifestyle, you must only accept a husband that is Muslim. Even though these issues may not have been as heated as when you first married him, which is an invalid marriage, they are becoming and will remain heated and may escalate especially when you begin to have children. Dear sister, I have personal family experiences with situations just like yours'. Hold on to your religion, to Allah (SWT)'s rope, because His (SWT) never cuts you short.
Love,
Anonymous
"Hold on to your religion, to Allah (SWT)'s rope, because He (SWT) never cuts you short"
SubhanAllah !!!!!!
x
salam i agree with both people !!!!
may allah give you the wisdom and strenght to do the right thing.!!
ma,salam