Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Tag Archive for ‘abuse’

Family dysfunction led to my Borderline Personality Disorder

After a history of dysfunctional family and abuse in that environment, I realized that I likely have Borderline Personality Disorder. I am ashamed of this and furthermore do not have a well-paying, consistent job that would allow me to leave the family environment that is always in crisis.

I have been spreading lies about my father, saying he abused me….how do I repent?

Do I have to confess to both my father and the people who I lied about him to?

My in-laws’ verbal abuse led me to say “no more!”

My in-laws are verbally and psychologically abusive to me, but I’m not sure if I’m allowed by Islam to completely stop talking to them.

Must I attend my cousin’s wedding if he molested me as a child?

A cousin that sexually molested me is getting married soon, and I do not want to go to his wedding. Is it ok for me not to attend, when it is prohibited to cut ties with relatives?

Life is unfair and unbearable

I don’t know from where to start..but i’m miserable.. so done with life as it has always been like so unfair towards me but i’m scared of death..but this life..is just so unbearable.

I hate my family

They make fun of me every day. I can’t take it anymore.

Losing my faith after 22 years of patience – memoirs of a polygamist home

This post is about my father… I don’t see hope anywhere.

Forced marriage

I don’t want to marry my fiance. But my father will never break my engagement becaue of his reputation in the society and his ego.

Arrogant Parents

My Hindu girlfriend is ready to convert but her family have started torturing her… She wants to suicide as she can’t bear it.

How more patient should I be?!

He has punched me in the back of the head and strangled me. They always say the first few years of marriage is very rough, is this what people mean by rough?!