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I want divorce as I can’t take it anymore

He does haraam things which i cant take anymore as hes doin all this before i even bring him to the u.k and now i know he will ruin my life or leave me if i bring him so whats the point me going al through the hard work. i told him so many times i want a divorce but he laughs it off and said he will never give it. i dont love him and if i did ever want to work it out it will be only for my family sake not mine.

My husband watches porn but I’m afraid to confront him

I know my husband watches porn, though he denies it. I can’t talk to anybody about this, even though its killing me inside. I don’t want to even talk to him or see his face.

Husband abuses me verbally, how can I make him stop?

My husband uses abusive language with me and once he warned me that if i ever get angry at my kids he will hit me .. i remined him if he did that again, i am not gona stay a day with him.

She was forcefully married 5 years ago; Can she marry me without her family’s permission?

Can she come over and be apart of my family, be my wife and would this be valid, without her family’s permission at all? As i see their interests are based on family pride and her best interests are not kept at heart, even though right now within the last couple of months her grand farther is trying to correct certain issues.

Am I right to ask for Khula/divorce from my abusive husband?

I would like to ask my brothers and sisters out there if I am doing the right thing by asking for khula/divorce. I just haven’t got the energy to try and make this marraige work anymore and I apologise to everyone out there and even my family. The relative whom I always wanted to marry is still single and I believe that maybe allah will unite us, and this has been a test from allah to increase my imaan.

In an abusive marriage, contemplating divorce, worried about kids’ future.

Soon after the wedding, I came to know that my husband was forced into this marriage by his mother and he actually didn’t like me. I’m staying in this marriage just for my kids, though I wonder whether it’s a valid reason for me to continue in this abusive relationship. I’m so worried about the future of my kids and am feeling guilty for contemplating a divorce.

My husband treats me very badly; what should I do?

My husband pray and he fears Allah, but sometimes he is hurting me so much with his words. I am pregnant and when I was pregnant 6 months he beat me with his belt very badly, that I had bruises for month.

My husband hates my daughter from a previous relationship; what do I do?

My husband doesn’t get on with my daughter (from a previous relationship) who is 9. When I first met my husband, he was kind, considerate and a ‘real gentleman’ however, my daughter (then 7) he will always find a way to argue and send her to her room.

Her husband beat her till she lost her baby

I am sharing this story behalf of my dearest best friend I have known her 19 years now and my friend is in such a difficult situation and needs help and advice. I told her about this site but she is so upset and depressed that she said she doesn’t have that energy to sit and write about her unexpected accidents which she faced by her self.

Should I stay in my emotionally abusive marriage for the sake of the children?

I have been married for 14 years and have three children. Our marriage has been breaking down for years. My husband comes from a very different culture. His family are very close knit, they only marry cousins and mix with their own community. They rarely venture out. My husband was the first to marry outside […]