Tag Archive for ‘Arguments’

My husband granted a divorce I only asked for in anger
asalam-0-alaikum team of Zawaj
I am really very sorry if you are thinking like this that I am sending the questions of same crux more than 7 times to you. Of course one will write to you about his/her problem if he/she is really suffering. I think nobody is mad enough to send or repeat her questions 7 times having the same theme. I am really suffering. I am not just finding the answers but I want to know the reasons for moving in any kind of direction. This is the last time I am writing you this question now I shall never repeat it again.

How should I deal with a troubling father in law?
Its been 2.5 years since I have got married and right from the start my father in law has been very dominant with me and my husband in Pakistan. For the first few months my husband and I lived in separately from my father in law in an apartment and we visited my father in laws apartment often. I lived with my father in law and my brother in law when my husband got a job in Riyadh.

How do I manage my wife’s bad behaviour?
I want to share my entire situation so that I would tell you the better question which I am suffering from. My wife was already divorced of six year relationship with her ex before I got married. She was a sterility patient and I knew this very well.

How can I have a happy relationship when I am so bitter about my sacrifices?
I am a person who used to be very sociable. I used to hang out a lot with friends, family, cousins and more. Eight years ago a man entered my life. Since I said yes to him, people that were close to me become my enemies. He is not a bad guy at all he is Muslim and has no bad habits at all

How can I get past what I said to my husband out of anger?
I have a dilemma: My husband and I had a major fight about 3 weeks ago and out of anger I told him he’s haram to me.

Does my husband have a valid reason for keeping from school?
I want to go back to school but my husband puts obstacles in my way. I help him at his store and support him in whatever he wants to do but he does not do the same with me.

I took an oath on my daughter that I wouldn’t touch my wife. How do I repent?
I am having a lot of arguments with my wife and the only reason for that i understand is that she is alone in india taking care of our house, our daughter and our shops while I am working in saudi arabia…

My Husband Parties Like a Single Man
I am a Pakistani British born Muslim women. I am married to a Turkish Muslim man; we have one child aged 21 months. I have a few dilemmas with my marriage at the moment.

Depressed from an unwanted divorce
I really love my husband and I don’t want talak from him, but now my in-laws are forcing me to give talak to him through court. I don’t understand what to do but I don’t want to lose my husband as well. I love him a lot & for that I need some dua & wazaif to bring him back in my life again.

Upset by Fiance’s Personality Switch
Every time we talk to each other, instead of solving our issues we fight like animals. He is always coarse with me using such harsh words that I can’t tolerate it and in return I say the same words which makes him more angry and then he shouts at me.