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How to approach a practising Muslim man for marriage purpose without falling into haram?

I am a 21 year old Muslim girl looking for a pious husband. However, recently a practising Muslim man caught my eye. I have no way of finding out more about him and I also cannot approach him as I don’t want to fall into sin neither do I want anything to affect my modesty or for him to think wrong of me. I don’t know if he is married or not and we have no mutual friends or any people who know us both. Its also not possible at the moment for a wali to help me in this matter. I would appreciate any advice as the difficulty of the situation is giving me negative thought such as ” will I ever get a practising husband”?

Am I in an haram relationship?

I have been with my Muslim boyfriend for 6 years now and we were having sexual relations for about 5 years. Since this discussion a year has passed and now I have reverted to Islam, which I am very happy and proud about. I know that this is obviously haram as Allah does not permit any form of relationship between the opposite of sex till marriage, and if it was down to me I would marry him in a heart beat. But here is where it gets complicated because he says that he will marry me but not until he finishes his degree and/or if I get a good job.

I am heartbroken, overwhelmed and ashamed for what I did. Please help me I want my fiance back

I was engaged to a brother. We had the right intentions and were doing things in the correct way. No private contact, no private meetings. The first time we met alone, we both tried to get a third party but were unable to, and I was leaving the city so we ended up meeting alone.

My family won’t accept him, because he’s a European convert Muslim

I got to know a guy through Facebook in November last year. We talked for about two weeks, he seemed perfect even though we had never met and even though we only spoke for about two weeks. I live in Germany and he lives in Switzerland…

My mother and I choose a girl for me to marry but my father doesn’t approve. What should I do?

My father asked my mother to look for girl for my marriage. When my mother shortlisted the girl she asked me to meet the girl and wanted me to confirm if I wish to marry her. Once she confirmed everything she went to my father and he discarded the family without even meeting them. My mother categorically told me that she will not find any girl for me because my father has disapproved the girl she chose and she clearly told my father the same. I have talked to my father 3 times and he disapproved all my requests without giving me the clear reason. Since then my mother and father are not on the talking terms.

My friend is in not happy with his future in-laws as they don’t allow both to talk or see each other.

My friend saw her at a wedding a couple of years ago and wanted to get to know her more, so he messaged her on facebook, at first she was really rude to him since she doesn’t talk to a lot of guys, but after she got to know him they became friends on facebook, for almost 2 years they just talked online and after they started to get emotionally attached (online) my friend told her that he likes her and that he wanted to meet her parents to ask for her hand in marriage and if that would be ok with her? she agreed and she told her mom about my friend, and then her parents invited my friend to their house. Any ways, my friend did an istikhara and it was positive, his parents did istikharas and they were positive and even I did an istikhara for them and it was positive, and to my knowledge we are only supposed to do an istikahra upto 7 times and then trust it and not doubt Allah swt first guidance, why are these people doing it again and again and again for the same thing?

I want to get married but my parents think it’s too early for me. Please help me.

I really want to have someone in my life, a real muslimah that fears Allah and is a practicing muslim and serious about her deen. Im not seeing anyone or doing anything illegal that is out of the boundaries set by Allah. The problem is that my parents think it’s to early for me to get married, however they have agreed to trying to find me a suitable wife, but sometimes I just feel that I am burdening them with this request and that they find it hard to happen and a bit annoying. I have stopped asking my parents over this issue and I have totally left it to Allah and his will, and told myself that Whenever Allah wants,it will surely happen.

I want to marry him but his father refuses as I am divorced. Is it due to religion?

I am new to this site but I am sure that I can get my answers on this site. I am a 25 years old divorced Indian female and am currently dating a muslim guy. We get along with each other very well since we have been together for past 3 years. I have been divorced for 6 years now. Me and the guy want to get married and settle down but just because the divorced tag on my name has refrained us being together. He doesn’t have his mum with him and stays with his father and twin brother. We tried to talk to his father last year for us to get married but he refused due to me being divorced. I am not sure why he has said no to our relationship; is it because such marriages are not acceptable by religion Islam or is it something else?

In love with A Muslim man who is engaged to another woman by force. Do I have a chance?

I am deeply in love with my Muslim Ex-Boyfriend. We both saw the same point of view in life. We talked about , me becoming Muslim for him in the past. But On August 3, his parents got him engaged with someone else. The same day he broke up with me saying he’s very sorry and didn’t want this to happen. He has told me he likes her but does not love her. Like the way he loves me. Will there be a chance that he will Break off the Engagement? If so how?

I am new to Islam but don’t know how to find a Muslim partner?

I am a 68 year old man and am fit and healthy and young at heart and I live in Cape Town, South Africa. I have reverted to Islam and would like to start a new life by finding a Muslim marriage partner.