Tag Archive for ‘cannot get married’

I have converted to Islam but my boyfriend is delaying marriage as he is convincing his family to marry me.
My boyfriend was guiding me to Islam and it took so long time(nearly 2 yrs to understand the beauty of islam) and then I became Muslim. We don’t work in same place any longer. He is either not willing to come out or he is getting scared to spend time with me. I understand that now he is staying with his family and it won’t be the same as earlier. I feel I have been rejected by him. I m ready to do anything to convince his family but they are not ready to accept me.

I want to marry him but my mother refuses because he is from a different tribe. How can I convince her?
I have been looking for the right man for many years. Now, I met him who has the personality and qualities I desire. I am a true Muslim. He is very devoute Muslim. Proposing marriage is so difficult because we are from different tribes. He wants to get married in a halal way, but my mom disapproved him because of his tribe. I want to be married to him because I love him. I don’t want to disrespect my mother because I love her to death but how can I make her understand this good Muslim guy, who prays five times a day and knows the religion better than me. What is the best way to make her understand and tell her stop being judgmental without disrespecting her?

Should I leave him as he won’t marry me or just stay for the sake of our children?
I have been in a relationship for 5yrs with a Pakistani man and I have 2 children with him and my other children all think he is their dad. He wont marry me. I new him for 18months before we got together when my daughter was just born then I had my son and he still wanted relationship with me. I do everything myself I take nothing from him he gives me nothing in return. Also I didnt find out till after a few years he has a wife and has kids with her; now I feel very trapped.

He doesn’t practice Islam but wants to meets my parents to ask for my hand in marriage. I am confused;
I would like to marry a male, who was born a muslim. His father was is a muslim man and his mother a mixed race female. Due to his parents separation at a very early age, he did not learn how to be a proper muslim. He does not practise salaat or read quran. However he believes in Allha (swt) 100% and has studied not only Islam but also other religions. I am still concerned as to what my father and family will say. I am so confused as he wants to get married and settle down. He wants to meet my father and family.

Can a sunni woman marry a shia man?
With all my respect, I would like that you give me a global view to see if this union between sunni and shia is possible and what can be done to help them to marry.

Her mother wants a doctor for her.
Then our friendship became stronger and we fell in love . We have met only once after 8 months she met me for the first time. Mashallah we are totally pure. Her mom came to know about me that she loves me.

My father don’t agree to my marriage to the guy I like because he is African.
I have started to grow close to a man who is African. I never thought I would be with an African man before, as being Asian myself its not often the norm. I dont agree with my dad; I feel he’s judgemental and shallow and he even admits to me in his own words that its all about how people see outside not whats inside. I had no intention of a relationship whatsoever and neither did he but its just that as friends we have started to grow closer and I have realised how much of a nice person he is and how well we get along.

I’m in love with a girl but my parents don’t allow me to marry her
My parents are quite strict which is causing a lot of problem for us. Part of their the reason for their strict behaviour is my sister who is not married yet. She wanted to marry a person but my parents didn’t approve him but she faught for her choice and now they have agreed when she is 27. My parents scolded me, my mother slapped me, ….

Father abusive behaviour toward family and difficulty in finding a decent proposal for sister.
My mother is not given her right to say anything in major issues of family and part of the reason of my sister not getting married is the interference from my aunts (father’s sisters). The reason is that my aunt wants to give her daughter to my brother. She probably views my sister as a thorn in her daughter’s side.

Sin of magic/break down of marriage proposals
Salam
I am a mature muslim guy . My question is Many Many years ago as a student I used to visit black magicinas to get TAWEEZ to get the love of a girl( I didn´t get her anyway) I did it for a year or so then I stopped as I knew it was wrong ..
I have been repenting ever since maybe every day ….