Tag Archive for ‘cheating’

He’s had a physical relation with my mother!
He has a physical relation with my mother from last 5 years… My family insist me to marry with him. And I don’t want to.

I am mentally drained from the cheating and beating
But he turns violent everytime I speak to him about separation, as he uses the kids to threaten me. He has not been a good father, yet he always tells me to leave if I want and give the kids to him. He has said so much to hurt me. My kids always witness me getting beaten. I wonder what impact will this lead to. I stayed all these years with the hope that he will change for the better, but I don’t know if I waited too long.

My rights after being cheated on and abused?
He continues to be physically and emotionally abusive to me, does not give me money for groceries, and restricts my movements out of the house. I have found video tapes of women having oral sex with him, but this does not come under the definition of zina, as the penetration was not on video tape.

She’s cheating on me, but promised to stop
I am really committed to a girl. We had sex, but she is having contact with some other boys also- I mean love affairs. I caught it, but now she is saying she has stopped all those and loves me only. Yet she is keeping distance from me also. What should I do now? -Rasheed

What should I do about her infidelity?
She said she wants to work and go out without me and I am not allowing her to do that. I told her that this relationship is very important to me, and almost had tears in my eyes, but she still went. It’s been 48 hours that she hasn’t bothered to talk with our son or me. I don’t know what will happen, or how I will deal with it.

Should I marry for status or love?
He is not at all good looking, and everyone says that I deserve better than him. I love him, but I really can’t tolerate his family. They don’t have any standards at all, and that’s why I’m taking back my steps and not fighting for him. I don’t wanna marry some pious man, because I don’t wanna do injustice to him. I may find a guy who’s my type and who has committed sins like mine, but guys don’t accept and can’t bear that their wives are already not a virgin. So I think I cant lead a normal, peaceful life.

She slept with him and broke my heart
I was trying to get back normal with her, but then that guy contacted me telling me that she had been with him for 2 months and they had sexual relations many times. I was so shocked. when I asked her about this, she cried a lot and admitted it.

Married Man Lied to Me!
I found out last week that my partner of over a year has been married (very happily it seems) all along…

I love him, he’s married, and his wife is pregnant.
She is due, and he keeps saying “wait, I will tell her”, but I feel he is lying to me. This has broken me down mentally, and no matter what I do it isn’t enough. I have changed my life around for this man who has lied to me and hurt me, but he hasn’t walked away when I have hurt him. So does he want to be with me?

Years Of Lies…
I have been with the love of my life for 12 years and 6 months ago I found out he has been lying to me all this time. I have told him it is over between us yet he still insists that we will talk about this… He posted on sites for marriage yet he wasn’t willing to marry me.