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I’ve been told to leave, but I cannot

Now since we have been married he has cheated on me with many women and has abused me physically, verbally and emotionally. I have caught him in many lies regarding his cheating ways. He keeps a diary which was full of women stories, and from my understanding I think he is sex addict. We even went to marriage counseling and he got mad because the marriage counselor told him he needs serious help.

My mother was my best friend who I shared my pain with, can I go to her if she can’t come back?

He is the one enjoying his life while I am left to pick up the pieces. Will he never be punished for playing this awful game with me which took a chunk out of my life? Am I that bad that I have to go through this? I feel like I die a thousand times a day and I want to put an end to this now and forever, if my mum can’t come back can I go to her? The pain I’m suffering in this world I can’t bare anymore I just want to go to my mum.

We were recently married, but I found that my husband likes another girl

One day I woke up and I saw a text saying ” good morning baby wake up” I was like wth… So I decided to do more research and just wait till I got all the dirt on him. I want threw this phone and he’s been seeing her and had sex with her as well a lot.

Cheated on my fiancee, guilt is eating me up. What should I do?

I know its haram too have sex outside marriage but i have no clue what came over me…everytime i think about it i still cant believe the mind set i was in to do something like that its been 3 months now. I have guilt built inside me that i need to tell my fiancee but if i do i will lose her and i would honestly die if i lost her.

I am lost; should I marry him despite he cheated on me in the past?

i think i do want to be with him but the proper way. iA i have started to pray n read the Quran daily iA. i am trying to make it up to my family by studying and being a good muslim iA. im still confused n sometimes i cant concentrate, i fear that i will end up back in square one if i continue talking to him.

Why do we fall in Love? Will the ones who betray be punished by Allah?

If person lyks any1 want to marry..as there is permission in islam to get married by their choice..as love marriage.. why boys r hurting so much? y they r playin wid feelin n lives..they dnt feel mercy at girls life?? why they r destroyin them? some of them got trapped in fake love n loose their virginty and some of them havin miserable life bcoz of betrayal..cheating.. alone, stressed..mentally tortured etc

Very jealous/suspicious of how my wife acts and behaves.

I caught my wife messaging another man on her phone, inviting him to come to the house when I’m not there. She took an oath that she would never do it again, but since then I cannot trust her.

My husband is messaging girls online asking to meet up with them

I have recently got married, married life was going well or so I thought. In the past few weeks I had noticed my husband spending long time on the internet and facebook..

Help me get my lost love back

i was in relationship with a guy since last 4 years. he used to chat with other girls and drink. still i thought that may be he really loves me so after all fights he will come to me only. please me some dua were i can pray and to get him back.

I let a man use me and ditch me, and now I am full of regret.

I told him he has used me and then ditched me,and now he was satisfied. He said yes, he used me and now he is satisfied. That made me feel even worse. Since then, I have lost my self-esteem and feel very sad, I’m so depressed and feel used and dirty.