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My husband is demanding and unfair.

I understand that a husband and wife are like clothing for one another and that’s why it’s best to keep matters between you two but currently I feel like everything has gotten out of hand.

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Ultra-controlling husband is suffocating me

My husband grew up without affection, and when he saw how affectionate my family is, he decided that we are all perverted. Since then he controls my behavior down to the tiniest detail.

My husband has abandoned me

We were preparing for marriage but he left without any notice. I am so confused and lost.

Married to an educated but verbally abusive man

Married to a highly educated person, who is angel in eyes of others is a mental torturer for me. Has no sympathy towards me not even on humanitarian basis.

Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

My husband excludes me from decisions

He says I are being disrespectful, he is my husband and I should do what he wants. It’s been only six months since we got married, and I got just a few months to finish my studies. If he is acting this way now that am away, what will happen if I am home?

Controlling insecure husband

Prior to marriage, he would tell me that he was very strict and promised a life based on Islam. After marriage I found it was only me who he wanted to cage in with him free to do as he pleases.

Controlling husband, am I asking too much?

My husband is coming from a totally different culture and background. He earns good money but tries to control every aspect of my life and behavior.

Too Much Control

I have been in this marriage for 3 years. As soon as I converted the rules started to come down hard on me.

Seeking advice on the matter of a physical and verbal abuser husband

I was only 18 when I got married to him. He is extremely insecure and abusive towards me.