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Husband is extremely verbally abusive, is it my fault?

I have tried to speak with him in calmer times to explain that his behaviour of getting angry over minuscule things then blaming me for his vile language is a classic example of verbal and emotional abuse, and suggested we look into counselling or advice from any Imam, Sheikh, scholar etc that he feels comfortable to speak with, but he refuses.

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My husband excludes me from decisions

He says I are being disrespectful, he is my husband and I should do what he wants. It’s been only six months since we got married, and I got just a few months to finish my studies. If he is acting this way now that am away, what will happen if I am home?

Controlling insecure husband

Prior to marriage, he would tell me that he was very strict and promised a life based on Islam. After marriage I found it was only me who he wanted to cage in with him free to do as he pleases.

Controlling husband, am I asking too much?

My husband is coming from a totally different culture and background. He earns good money but tries to control every aspect of my life and behavior.

Too Much Control

I have been in this marriage for 3 years. As soon as I converted the rules started to come down hard on me.

Seeking advice on the matter of a physical and verbal abuser husband

I was only 18 when I got married to him. He is extremely insecure and abusive towards me.

I was married forcefully – I really need help it’s urgent

I am not satisfied with my nikah. I tried a lot to love him but just his attitude his anger make me more far from him.

Would you stay or leave?

My husband is very disrespectful to me. He doesn’t care about Islam. He’s just all about the dunya and making money.

Forced to choose between my husband and my siblings

Many times my husband drives me out of the house. Now he is asking me not to visit my brothers and sisters.

Help needed in understanding istikhara

I’m married but separated as was victim of domestic violence… My husband wants us to get back together and my family really insisting me for divorce.